How To Have Better Relationships: Value, Scheduling, Analysis And Empathy

To have better relationships you first need to be in the right relationship. The right relationship is when you have a kind, loyal woman that you love. The wrong relationship is with a toxic person, or a women you don’t love anymore
If you’re in the wrong relationship, the only move is to end it, how to avoid toxic women.

So let’s assume you’re in the right relationship and you’ve taken the role as the masculine leader of your relationship. Women, whether they admit it or not, screen for nothing less than RANK. Height, strength, confidence, posture, assertiveness, money and status are all major factors in a woman’s screening criteria for relationships.

Being the leader in your relationship is crucial, but as opposed to what many guys in the men’s self improvement sphere say, being too “alpha” will hurt you more than it helps you.

The key is balance. Yes women want a strong, confident, man to lead them, but they also want someone who understands their feminine needs. In the real world, you can lose a girl just as easily by being too “alpha” or strong vs being too “beta” or weak.

The ideal balance is 70% strength, 30% softness. And I can tell you from personal experience, that time and time again women have told me that what they liked most about me was my kind heart. Of course they were only able to appreciate that because of my sexual market value but nonetheless, it’s important.

In the past I didn’t understand this. I wanted things to be my way or the highway (and still do to be honest). But I now recognize that If I want to be in a relationship there is a price to pay (just like everything else in life). Just like I know I’m expected to do certain things in business, I know I’m expected to do certain things in a relationship.

Now, those things won’t be anywhere close to the dog and pony show expected from the average p*%$@-whipped American male, but being proactive about the small things I’m going to outline for you will make a big difference in your relationships.

Check out the video/audio to see the relationship analysis you need to do, as well as the key tactics. Also, make sure to check out the bullet point summary below and the related resources.

How To Have Better Relationships

Notes And Summary

Relationship Analysis

  1. Value Relationships – sit down, needs met, quality woman, mostly happy, future potential – this is rare, when you don’t value your relationship, you will end up tanking it, put in work like you do for your business
  2. Consider Your Downside – 6 month state drop, 3 years to replace if ever, future plans derailed, rebuilding what you invested
  3. No Neutral – You’re either going up or down, fighting +, sex -, beginning of end, change course up to survive, relate to above

Tactics (Still doing all from masculine frame within reason)

  1. Make Your Relationship A Priority: 8 hours of business a day, give her at least a few quality hours a day (think loss)
  2. Fresh Start: elicit more her values, ask for hers, re commit to being better than ever, ask for the same from her
  3. Express Your Emotions More: when you feel them, in rich descriptions, very powerful
  4. Commit to tantric/karezza sex: its the only thing can save you from the coolidge effect
  5. Stay Reasonable:  address problems without raising your voice, solution oriented
  6. Use Sedona Method: use release technique on anger, pointless fights, lose/lose situations (just release)
  7. Schedule Kind Things: schedule nice things twice a week – dates, new restaurants, little gifts, thoughtful, just dont tell her, make occasional, and make it look spontaneous

Related Resources

  1. Hi will hope everything it’s fine with u. My girlfriend are interested in personal development stuff Just like your website and I wonder if I can give the tip to read the book you recommended “Awaken The Giant Within“
    or is it’s only for men? If yes do u know any best book for women personal development like that book?

  2. Well your mindset will prevent a long lasting relationship, because you don’t believe in it. Only People who think that there is no alternative to a specific partner will have longer or life long relationship. It’s like burning all the bridges down. When you say to your brain that there is no other options, it will automatically changes the views on your relationships (I forgot who this cognitive bias is called).

    And don’t underestimate the power of having kids with somebody. Kids can really bond people together, because there is no way back if you have any.

    And the 50-60% divorce rate is not the real divorce rate, the 50 percent figure came from projections of what researchers thought the divorce rate would become as they watched the divorce numbers rising in the 1970s and early 1980s when states around the nation were passing no-fault divorce laws. The real divorce rate is more 20-30%. They perpetuate the myth in the media, because leftish media is more casual sex positive these days.

    Of course you don’t want to hear it because you have confirmation bias what relationships are concerned, but hey it’s okay that you don’t want that, it’s seems you and your readers are not made for monogamy anyways.

  3. Eh, it comes down to “people only see what they are prepared to see,” aka “you get out what you put in.” Will and RLD keeps it realer than any other mens’ health blogger IMO:
    If you want to be monogamous.. be monogamous, if you want to play.. play, and the same for choosing SMV for LTR, cuddling, sex, daily/weekly communication time spent or not spent with woman(en), shared activities (dates) with woman(en) versus with guy friends, etc. It all comes down to chasing freedom – not just chasing tail.
    You should always have a backup plan, 3000% that you definitely should. Relationships are no different. Whether that backup plan is a few breezys waiting on fakebook or for a FB text… or whether that backup is just your fitness and charisma and career does not matter. Have that backup or you will fail her shit tests. Make no mistake. You can’t have Oneitis which that ‘no alternative’ post reeks of. That is doomed to failure and p*ssy whipped nonsense where you murder her attraction to you (or start her looking around for a true alpha to follow – probably both).
    If you can figure out how to have deep and fulfilling relationships with women and top notch unprotected variety sex with no downsides AND without a woman causing frequent stress by grappling for control of your life, you have solved the mystery of what was in Marsellus Wallace’s briefcase, my Donald? :)

    …from the post above, the ‘Schedule Kind Things’ is at or near the top of the list in my experience. Seemingly boring stuff accomplished together (a puzzle, cooking a meal where you grill and she makes salad, playing a board game, thinking through a friend’s dilemma, navigating a nature trail or bundling up to winter hike for a bit and then warm up, etc etc) can go a long way. It doesn’t really matter what it is as long as you are reasonably successful – usually – to maintain alpha. GL

  4. Thanks for your input Donald, but this is not what I’m saying, I’ve done a few articles on monogamy, and have had some serious relationships and may have some in the future. As for kids I’ve said I’m undecided. The only thing I’m a hard no on is LEGAL marriage, because of the cost, amount of divorces, the ease of the divorce, and the way men are treated in court, I can’t advise guys to make decision especially from a financial perspective.

  5. Thanks for your support, I appreciate it my man. And you’ve got it, if you want to be monogamous be mongamous, if you want to play, then play and understand the rules and expectations for all of those scenarios. Everything in life has pros and cons. And based on where you are in life you can always shift into a different type of relationship, or keep going with the same.

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