Pain is a problem.
Like all problems, with the right strategy, you can fight your way to a solution.
Check the video and notes below and learn how to fight back against pain and start winning.
How To Understand Pain
Physical Vs. Mental
- Physical pain stronger but finishes easier
- Mental pain is easier to control, but recurs, can’t remember physical pain
- I prefer mental to physical pain, state control techniques much more effective
Pain Vs. Suffering
- Pain doesn’t have to hurt you – eg. pain in the gym
- Pain is only suffering when you let it hurt you
- You can observe certain, temporary types of pain without suffering
Productive Vs. Unproductive Pain
- Buddhist expression of pain vs pleasure in equal measures used to f*ck me up
- Experience proves otherwise, by effort you can control pleasure/pain ratios in your favor
- Through structure, lifestyle, mental techniques and effort you can minimize pain and suffering
How To Handle Pain
1) Schedule productive pain
- Productive pain is pain that serves a positive purpose
- Transmute pain to positive struggle, daily exercise and work
- Learn to enjoy productive pain first because working towards a goal, second because relief is coming soon
- Productive pain and relief is the key to a happy and fulfilling day
- Productive pain does not cause you to suffer
2) Avoid unproductive pain like the plague
- Unproductive pain is pain that serves no purpose
- Pursuit of happiness is your primary priority in your life and avoiding uproducitve pain is a major part
- Avoid sickness, injury and illness like it’s your job (very hard to be happy when you’re sick)
- Even low level 2/10 pain like a back ache is enough to f*ck up your day
- Manage unproductive thoughts ruthlessly and avoid sickness and injury just as ruthlessly
3) Attack Unproductive Pain Hard
- If/when you do get hit with unproductive pain – go hard as hell to get rid of it/#1 priority
- Daily battle, but most important battle in your life
- Reframe unproductive mental pain but listen to unproductive physical pain
- Attack unproductive physical pain with diet, drugs, supplements, stretching, surgery – whatever it takes
4) Don’t Add To Your Suffering
- Life is hard, wanting it to be easy just adds to your suffering
- When you rebel against reality you step on your own soldier
- Sooner you adopt a solution based mindset the better your situation gets
- Accept reality as quick as possible, avoid adding to your suffering and switch to a solution
- Not easy, but very important