Be A Victor Of Circumstances
We live in a victim culture and it’s killing us.
All you have to do is hop online or log onto your social media to watch people compete in the underprivileged Olympics.
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Our ancestors, we’re subsistence level farmers and feudal serfs with no healthcare and no medical technology.
The black plague wiped out a third of Europe.
Now that’s not to say bad things don’t happen today.
But when I hear about people complaining about microaggressions it makes me sick.
I was born a bastard.
My father left us when I was born.
My grandfather disowned me because my mother had me out of wedlock.
I grew up poor.
Until I was 10 we had a rotary telephone and a black and white TV.
I’ll tell you though. I never thought of myself as a victim.
I was a happy kid. I was well loved and my mom gave me all the food, clothes that I needed.
I’m grateful to be alive and I’m grateful for what I had.
And I learned early on that I had to earn the things I wanted.
And so I never expected them to be given to me.
You can’t win when you think of yourself as a victim.
All you do is hurt yourself by tearing open old wounds.
All you do is allow the person that hurt you in the past to hurt you again in the present.
When you see yourself as a victim, the person that hurt you is still winning.
The truth is success is the best revenge.
And you can’t be successful when you think of yourself as a victim.
Why? Because bad things happen to victims.
Bad things happen to victims, that’s the definition of being a victim.
So don’t be a victim of circumstances.
Instead be a victor of circumstances.
And have the bad things that happened to you in the past be lessons to learn from.
And have the bad things that happen in the future be obstacles for you to overcome.
Be a victor of circumstances and take control of your destiny.
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