What You Can Learn From The Pimp Game About Women And Life
Since I was young I’ve always been fascinated by pimps, how a man could have women worship him and pay him all the money they made from fucking other men was a mystery to me. Over the last decade I’ve studied the pimp and it’s given me some massive insights on life and women that I wanted to share with you guys.
A deep understanding of the pimp game will give you a razor sharp picture of how the world and male/female relationships work. I want to make it clear though that I’m not condoning pimping or the exploitation of women in any way. This article is about the nature of the world and the nature of women, not about how to become a pimp.
The pimp game we’re talking about here is not human trafficking, but the willing submission of a prostitute to a pimp in America over the last 200 years. Traditional pimping in America is similar to a secret society with its own rituals, language and oral tradition called “the book”.
The pimp game was born in the underworld which is a microcosm of the overworld, except the players are better informed, sharper, and more ruthless. The underclass have long since discarded the morality of squares, knowing full well that the overworld wasn’t meant for them, they have no middle-class illusions about the dark side of human nature.
Black men in America until recent history had few options for financial success so instead of traditional avenues, many turned to the underground economy which would allow them more success and dignity than a low-paying square job. Black men have long been fiercely resistant to working a chump job for a white boss which they saw correctly as a return to slavery.
Running a hustle or “game” was seen as the only way to retain their manhood in a world built to keep them down. That game could be conning, dope dealing, thieving or pimping. Pimps were looked on as the ultimate hustler because they had the money, the women, the clothes and got it all through game not violence. The ideal pimp was seen as a gentleman of leisure who would solve problems with game instead of violence, who would control women mentally instead of using force.
The rules to the game of pimping were passed on in pieces to each new generation on the condition that the wannabe pimp had to earn the information from the seasoned veteran or through mistakes of their own. Either way the wannabe had to be, that he learned that the game was to be sold not told.
It’s believed the tradition of pimping in America can be traced to the freed slaves who capitalized on the white man’s lust for black pussy and over the years each new generation added rules to the game. A pimp can learn game but it’s a widely held belief in the community that a pimp is born not made.
Pimps, unlike what most people assume, don’t keep their women because of how good they are in bed. Pimping is a mental game and a pimp needs a razor sharp mind to control women who make a living out of separating men from their money. It’s not about violence either, using violence means you’ve run out of game. A true, by-the-book pimp aims to solve all his problems through his pimping.
Contrary to popular belief, a ho is not forced into the game by a pimp, most ho’s are already planning on selling their body before she meets a pimp because she wants to ho. Forcing her into the game would be unsustainable because the pimp would eventually end up in jail for trafficking or have his ho run off when he’s not around. True by-the-book pimps don’t force women to do anything, women choose to be with them. This is hard for most people to believe.
A lot of people think the girl needs the pimp to protect her, and while the pimp does provide protection, it’s more of an illusion than a reality. The pimp spends most of his time away from the track, and doesn’t go anywhere near a girl and her john, the ho for the most part is on her own if anything happens and at best can call the pimp.
A lot of people don’t understand why a woman would become a ho. What they don’t realize is that for many pretty women with little education, hoing is their best option. She gets to feel like a star out on the track she gets to provide for her man and herself and she gets temporary love, attention and pleasure from the tricks. When her other option is a lifetime of working at burger king for minimum wage, it makes her decision a lot easier to understand. For more educated and well bred women they become the highest form of ho, the trophy wife.
Pimps and hos see the game everywhere, pimp owners selling dreams to employees in exchange for money, ho employee’s selling products to trick customers in exchange for money. The world is filled with pimps, hos and tricks and the elite pimp on all of us.To get a better understanding of the game we need to start with the history of pimping:
The mythology of the pimp game begins with Adam and Eve, Adam being the first trick and Eve being the first ho, seducing him for an apple. The snake was the first pimp who convinced Eve to trick a man for his benefit. The domination of man by woman created original sin. Eve rebelled against Adam’s authority and both her and Adam paid the price.
By following Eve, Adam lost his manhood and has been struggling since then to regain it. This was the price to pay for man not being able to control his sex drive. Eve was created out of man to serve his needs and by rebelling, she realized she could control her lord through the eating of the apple, which is what Adam was because she was created out of his rib. After being expelled by God, man had to toil or work a chump job, and still does to this day.
The actual history of pimping can be traced to freed slaves who had no other way of making money outside of the underground economy. They knew their former masters still had a taste for black women so they started selling them. The pimp game was known as the sporting life, presenting the pimp as a gentleman of leisure, modeled on 19th century white aristocrats.
Pimps had a stable of women similar to an aristocrat owning horses or dogs for racing, he was a dandy who spent a lot of his day resting and dressing. To this day top quality whores are referred to as thoroughbreds or stallions, they also can be referred to as bitches because female dogs were also raced. The street where Hos work is called the track in reference to the racetrack. Over time the rules for managing women were developed and passed down orally with the first exposure of them to the public in Iceberg Slim’s seminal novel “Pimp”.
The height of the game was the 1970’s. After the civil rights movement, black men had more freedom and could enjoy the fruits of their labor more openly. But once the 1980’s hit the game began to change, with the rise of crack many hos and pimps succumbed to the drug and the increase in violent gangsters made it more difficult for pimps to earn money.
Since then, the rise of the internet has enabled many hos to make a living through outcalls online. Pimps have responded by cutting deals with hos. This has created a rift between old school pimps who accuse the younger generation of not pimping by the book.
The roots of the term game to describe guys who are good with women comes specifically from the pimp game, many of today’s pick up artist tactics and phrases are just watered down pimping. To the pimp, game represents everything in life, you can either play or get played depending on if you follow the rules of the game. In the game you’re either a pimp or a ho, a slave or a master, a boss or a worker. According to pimps everyone games everyone in american society. Game represents self interest or the true American religion: materialism.
In the pimp game a pimp gets a ho sprung not just on himself but on the game. That’s why a ho leaves a pimp and chooses another pimp, the game is that strong. Everyone involved is a slave to the game, slaves to fast money, slaves to the night life, slaves to street fame.
The motivations of the pimp are simple: money, power, freedom and women. The pimp gets independence and street fame as opposed to working a chump job for the white man. His motivations are understandable but his methods can be barbaric.
A pimp will sell dreams, use verbal abuse and sometimes physical abuse to keep his hos in line. The ruthless nature of the pimp is necessary to maintain a stable of ruthless women who specialize in separating men from their money. A ho will detect any weakness in a pimp, if he succumbs to the temptations of his women then he will be put in the trick category, a pimp has to be a god to his hos for his game to work effectively. A pimp never admits to a problem because a pimp has to be a god, and a god doesn’t have problems. In “The Pimp Game”, Mickey Royal says:
Your every detail will be noticed. She wants to make sure she has chosen correctly, so she will be closely looking for flaws and even testing you. She will try to anger you, love you, basically, get a rise out of you…A pimp is a God to a ho. Why? Because he can do what her father, mother, church, etc. can’t. He can deliver.
The pimp lives separately from his hos to maintain his power and strengthen his illusion, a pimp understands that familiarity breeds contempt and absence makes the heart grow fonder. If you can touch a god any time you wanted to then he isn’t a god. Contrary to popular belief, pimps don’t get their women hooked on drugs, because then the drugs would be pimping them and the dopeman would get their money. He gets the ho hooked on himself and on the game.
Once a ho chooses a pimp as her god, he owns her. Once a ho buys into his dream she receives the glory of being close to the light. She gets to ride in his car, escort him around, all the while her value is going up. The ho is addicted to dreams, and her belief in the pimp is costly, he can now take her to heaven or hell depending on what he wants from her. The pimp however doesn’t buy dreams, he sells them, because the pimp is addicted to reality.
Since the pimp knows that his hos live in constant pain, he finds the ho’s pain point and offers a solution, he takes her away from the pain. He takes her places that she’s never been, places that don’t resemble the nightmare called her life. This is why a pimp takes a turnout away from her family. Not only does it take her old painful life away but it reinforces her dependence on him, in her new life he is the only one she can rely on. The pimp turns her against the pillars of her world by taking her away from them, pillars like her mother, her religion, her siblings and her friends.
The pimp now becomes all those things for her and she will give her soul to him in order to receive his love and guidance. A ho is driven by her insecurities, the pimp finds what her insecurities are and uses them against her. Once he finds out what brings her pleasure, he uses this knowledge to keep her weak, humble and working. The pimp gives hos directions but she pays for the journey, he promises her a new life but the pimp never has to deliver.
A pimp is as outcome driven as he is process driven, meaning his rules and standards of game mean more to him than any ho. This is because he knows his pimping and reputation is the source of all his power. A pimp learns a ho has to choose him, if he tries to force her he diminishes his power and the ho runs off the first chance she gets. When she chooses it means she accepts all his rules and worships him as he is.
The pimp needs the same discipline as the dope dealer, he can sample his product he can never become addicted to it. That’s why a pimp rations his dick to his hos. He makes sure to get paid to fuck his hos, he won’t fuck a ho until after she pays her choosing fee or after she gives him his nightly trap. In return he becomes whatever she needs, be it a father, brother, protector, or lover.
To pimp effectively he has to control his desires, the only desire he can indulge openly and with abandon is the desire for power. The pimp has to keep his dick “in his pocket” which represents sexual control and the fact that his pocket is where the money is, he effectively flips the script on his hos making them the trick who pays for a fantasy being fulfilled. The pimp is the only man not immediately interested in sexual gratification, and that makes the ho respect him, in fact he becomes the only man she can respect as she eventually starts to see all men as tricks.
Once a pimp’s hold over a ho is complete a pimp receives 100% of a ho’s money. From a pimps point of view he justifies getting all of her money because she gets all of his pimping. He also takes massive risks knowing that he can be killed, land in jail or lose all his hos at any given time.
The pimp spends a large part of his earnings on his hos as well as on himself, not out of frivolity, but as a business expense, top tier hos will only be interested in the flashiest dressed pimps who drive the most tricked out rides. He also needs to keep his front up to catch new hos.
The most difficult question for most people to understand is why a ho would pay a pimp all her money, Mickey Royal in “The Pimp Game” explains a ho like this:
the ho is the most difficult to understand..A ho is never happy, never satisfied. She is looking and searching for a world that doesn’t exist…She pays a pimp for entry into her fairytale world…The Ho – she doesn’t want money, she wants something intangible which she gets from her Man.
Many hos have little education and don’t want to be “liberated” to work minimum wage as waitresses or secretaries for 50 hours per week. It’s hard to believe for many why a woman would want to ho but to her it’s a fast life, it’s fast money and they get to feel like a star who provides for their man.
Even if a ho was to keep her own money she wouldn’t be able to manage it. The ho is fundamentally damaged, if she managed her own money she would work the bare minimum and spend everything on drugs, clothes and frivolous toys. Also a ho doesn’t want control over her life, that’s part of what makes her a ho. She wants to give that control to a man who will take care of her, that’s why a ho leaves a pimp for another pimp.
The ho loves her pimp because he is the only man who can have a relationship with a prostitute without judgement. In the ho’s mind the pimp is the first person who believed in her, who understood her and who convinced her they were heading for greatness together. Rosebudd in The American Pimp says:
Now when a girl chooses to become a ho, that’s her mentality. But they’re women before they’re hos. And most women want a relationship, a heterosexual relationship. When it comes to that she’s only going to be able to trust a pimp.
The ho loves the pimp because he constantly puts himself above her and she can’t love herself, love is an extremely powerful motivator. A parent will run into a burning building to save the child they love, people search their entire lives for a piece of something they can’t touch, tricks pay cash for it, hos pay an even higher price, their soul.
To the ho, the subconscious message to her brain is that HE has the power, the power to take her to heaven or hell, the power to make her laugh or cry, happy or sad whenever he pleases. A ho relinquishes emotional control to the pimp because she doesn’t want to control her life.
Women are notorious approval seekers, pimps rely on this to manipulate their hos. The pimp knows women subconsciously need masculine approval; so all he has to do is position himself so hos will seek his approval. Mickey Royal goes on to explain:
Then he can manipulate you at will. And even when a woman knows she’s being used or manipulated, if she’s feeling that man, and invested lots of time and emotion in him, she still will hang in there. This has nothing to do with esteem; it has everything to do with biology and psychology
Ho’s have a constant void in their life and welcome any distraction be it attention, love, drugs, drama, and sex. The pimp fulfills a ho’s needs she can’t get met anywhere else, Mickey Royal explains:
You’ll rarely see a woman just sitting in front of the TV after work with a beer and a sob story. Women want. …If there is a want, there’s an opportunity for macking and/or pimping.Women are never satisfied – They bore easily. Women crave danger.
The ho is enslaved by her desire and is the only one in the game who won’t have her fantasy fulfilled. A ho knows she is pimping off her customers and being a trick for her man, but she rationalizes according to her needs. Royal goes on to explain:
A prostitute gives a trick what he wants in exchange for what her pimp wants. What does she get? She gets that for which she has sold her soul be it love, respect, security or fame. And she gets this only from her pimp, maybe once she has delivered the spoils of her labor from the trick.
The downside of a ho’s adoration of the pimp is their eventual disillusionment with him and resentment of their constant work hours with little in return, similar to the common employee working to make his boss rich while he just gets by every month. A ho starts by loving a man and proving her worth but over time can develop hatred. Some masochism plus inertia are what keep her walking the line. Sweet Jones in Iceberg Slim’s “Pimp” describes a ho’s employee mentality like this:
Slim, all whores have one thing in common just like the chumps humping for the white boss. It thrills ’em when the pimp makes mistakes. They watch and wait for his downfall.
Malcolm X explains a trick like this:
I had talked to too many prostitutes and mistresses. They knew more about a whole lot of husbands than the wives of those husbands did. The wives always filled their husband’s ears so full of wife complaints that it wasn’t the wives, it was the prostitutes and mistresses who heard the husbands’ innermost problems and secrets.
The trick is addicted to sexual fantasies, he pays for what a real man should get for free, that’s why a ho can’t respect him. The reason he’s called a trick is not because he pays for sex but because he pays for the illusion of the woman enjoying it. Trick relationships will almost always end because the man is damaged, he might be financially successful but his self esteem is low enough that he needs to buy a woman off the streets. A trick knows he is a trick but rationalizes according to his needs.
Pimps know that if a ho marries a trick she can never fully respect him due to his desperation and lack of understanding of her. He would have trouble with her past leading to fights, tension and angry outbursts with him ending up calling her a whore. A ho will never be able to love a trick.
The relationship between Ginger and Ace Rothstein in “Casino” is a perfect representation of a trick marriage. Ginger is an ex-whore and Ace is a successful, wealthy, high status businessman but she never loves or respects him because she always views him as a trick. He gives her everything in the world and she tries to live a square life but is desperately unhappy and ends up giving her money to her old pimp who she’s still in love with because he owns her mind.
Purse First, Ass Last
A ho can’t try you before she buys you, to be valued the pimp needs to receive his money up front. No one wants to buy the cow when they can get the milk for free. The pimp can’t earn his price he has to cost it. In “Pimp” Iceberg Slim receives this advice from his mentor:
Slim, I hope you ain’t sexed that pretty bitch yet. Believe me, Slim, a pimp is really a whore who’s reversed the game on whores….A whore ain’t nothing but a trick to a pimp…Always get your money in front just like a whore.
A pimp makes sure he gets paid every day by his women, otherwise he becomes a trick to them. Pimps have a high amount of sexual discipline and try to keep sex with their hos to a minimum, they give their hos sex as a reward, in effect they’ve completely reversed the game on women. What the trick is to the whore, the whore is to the pimp: a customer. Using economic terms again, the pimp creates a scarcity mindset when it comes to letting whores have sex with him: he makes himself a scarce commodity and keeps his value high by having sex with his whores as little as possible.
Don’t Chase ‘Em, Replace ‘Em
By chasing, the pimp puts the ho in the driver’s seat, the secret to a pimps power is putting himself first. Pimps know the name of the game is cop and blow, he knows hos are fickle and he wants to get as much money out of her while he has her. This is why a pimp is constantly prospecting for new hos in the same way a salesman is constantly prospecting for new leads. As Rosebudd says:
Bitches leave for whatever reason or no reason, if you knew why she left you than you weren’t pimping, otherwise you would have handled that shit.
The entire pimp game is based around hos choosing a pimp. A common misconception is that a pimp forces women to ho for them, in reality a woman has to choose a pimp and for her to be officially accepted into his stable she has to pay a choosing fee up front. The fee is at the pimp’s discretion but will generally range from $2,000 on up. The purpose of the choosing fee is to show that the ho is invested in the pimp and that she is prepared to continue to give him money. After a pimp runs game on a ho he will always ask her if she’s ready to choose.
Keep Your Front Up
This means a pimp needs to keep his style, swagger, car, house and game sharp at all times. Hos won’t give their mind, body and soul to the average square. A pimp has to set himself apart at all times.
Get A Rundown
This means once a ho has chosen a pimp she needs to be thoroughly interviewed for the position of ho. Her relationship with her parents, ex boyfriends, friends, sexual history, drug use – the pimp has to know everything about his ho. He has to know what motivates her, what causes her pain, what her insecurities are so he can use them to motivate her to produce for him. The more a pimp knows about a ho, the better he can manipulate her.
Break A Ho
Once chosen, a pimp has to break a ho down, similar to how the military breaks down recruits or employers train new employees. Mickey Royal says:
Only give a bitch power stares. Once chosen, you have to break a bitch down. This process is commonly known as knocking. You can’t take a wild tiger out of Africa, Friday and have him jumping through hoops at a circus Saturday.
Don’t Give A Ho Any Dough
This means the pimp gets 100% of a ho’s money. In return the pimp pays for everything in a ho’s life from rent to groceries but the pimp decides what, when, where and how much he gives her. Keeping the ho completely dependent on the pimp only enhances his power, it also keeps her from leaving because he knows that she needs to pay a choosing fee if she wanted to get with another pimp.
Let Your History Be A Mystery
That means a pimp doesn’t take a ho to his home or delve into any great detail about his life before pimping. A pimp wants to keep an air of mystery and let her project a fantasy backstory on to him.
Pimps Up Hos Down
A pimp thinks of himself as a lion, in the animal kingdom the lion does no hunting but is the first to eat. The lion’s sole responsibility is protection of his family from other predators, namely other male lions. The pimp always comes first and is always respected above his hos. It means a ho needs to act right and not get “out of pocket”, that means no looking or talking to other pimps without asking, it means a pimp is always right and a ho is expected to respect him at all times.
It means she’s expected to follow his program to the letter, that could be lighting his cigarette, pulling the chair out for him at a restaurant or whatever she’s been instructed to do. A pimp always puts himself first knowing that is the only way women will follow him, Iceberg Slim explains it like this:
If the man doesn’t keep the upper hand, then the woman will take over. And then she doesn’t want him any more; she wants to try another challenge. Once she’s sure, once she’s ever sure of you.
Serving A Pimp
Serving is what’s required when a pimp takes or “knocks” another pimps’ ho. He does this by running game on a loose ho, if she responds by eye contact and talking to him he will try and get her to choose. If she gives him a choosing fee she’s now part of his stable. By pimp law he’s now required to call the other pimp and notify him, the pimp who got served is supposed to take the news with grace, give the new pimp a rundown on ho’s qualities and transfer the ho’s possessions.
If both pimps are pimping by the book then they should be able to have a gentlemanly conversation about it over a drink. Pimps that take serving badly are looked down on in the community. The only time a pimp won’t serve anoter pimp is if the other pimp is known as a gorilla. A Gorilla pimp is usually an ex gangster who relies on violence. They aren’t respected by true pimps and won’t be served because the pimp knows to expect violent retaliation against both him and his new ho.
A Pimp Only Loves Himself
A true pimp is only supposed to love himself and the game, as long as he puts himself first and follows the rules of the game he’s said to be pimping by the book. If he starts to develop feelings for a particular ho, he’s said to be leaking game. A pimp can’t afford falling in love with his hos because that weakness would allow him to be manipulated like a trick and will cost him hos and his money. A pimp gets high on pimping, a pimp’s true love is himself and the pimp game, falling in love with a ho is a luxury a pimp can’t afford.
Get A Bottom Woman
The bottom bitch is the pimps right hand. She has generally been with him the longest and is effectively the manager to his CEO position. She handles a lot of the day-to-day work with hos as well as training and recruiting new prostitutes. How much authority she is delegated depends on how loyal and capable she is. The bottom woman is usually in love with the pimp and dreams they will retire together and live a square life off of what they earned in the game.
Proper Instruction Brings Proper Production
Hos are lost little girls who believe the pimp will love and take care of them. Many hos choose a pimp because they can’t manage their money or their life and want someone else to. The ho depends on the pimp for daily instruction ranging from what to do with tricks, how to make more money to how to acheive her life goals. The ho lives and dies by the pimp’s direction and instruction, sometimes literally.
Keep Hoes on Their Toes
That means to keep her the pimp has to tell her something new every day, to give her game every day. She has to respect his intellect as much as his other attributes and by constantly telling her something new you’re constantly keeping yourself above her on a mental level.
A Ho Joins A Stable to Ruin It
In the same way employees secretly love to undermine their boss and rivals, hos secretly love to undermine their pimp and each other. In “Pimp”, Iceberg Slim receives this advice from his mentor Sweet Jones:
Slim, a pretty Nigger bitch and a white whore are just alike. They both will get in a stable to wreck it. They’ll leave the pimp on his ass with no whore. You gotta make ’em hump hard and fast.
No Money But Ho Money
A true by-the-book pimp prides himself on earning all his income solely from prostitution. He views other hustles as either too dangerous or beneath his pay grade and a pimp would never demean himself by working a square job because then he would be pimped on by someone else.
A ho will test her man to prove that he’s different from the tricks, to prove that he’s above her so she can worship him. Like all women she will fight her man for power but doesn’t actually want it. If a pimp fails to check a ho properly she’ll find another pimp who will. A good pimp is able to check a woman without using violence, by resorting to violence it means a pimp has run out of game.
A Pimp Can Only Move Up
The ho needs to live in a pimp’s reflective glory, outside of maybe a pimp’s bottom woman, the average ho won’t stay with a pimp when things go badly, she’ll get knocked quick by a bigger and better pimp. A better car, a bigger house, better clothes, more money, A pimp can only move up not down.
Sell The Dream
A pimp gets a ho hooked on the game. That’s why a ho leaves a pimp and chooses another pimp, the game is that strong. A ho is always searching, she’s driven by her insecurities and desire to complete herself. In the same way the boss of a company sells an employee on money and status a pimp sells a ho in the same way. He dangles the carrot of money, cars, excitement, street fame and companionship. Mickey Royal goes on to explain:
And he can do what her father, mother, church, etc. can’t, he can deliver. A ho is in lust of a fantasy and that is one of the reasons a pimp can take all. He takes her away from her life of pain with dreams of a new one. A pimp doesn’t believe in dreams he sells them.
Know When To Fire A Ho
The pimps power comes from putting himself first. It means he holds himself to a higher standard and expects others to as well, that’s why he always has to be ready to fire a ho who won’t respect his program. This is the ultimate punishment for a ho, worse than violence or emotional abuse. Most pimps are reluctant to fire a top moneymaker but will do so if she crosses a line with him.
How The Pimp Game Explains The Material World
The world is filled with pimps and ho’s. Pimps in the form of wealthy families and their agents sit at the top of the banking/governmental/industrial complex. The rest of us underneath are hoing for them through interest, debt, wage slavery and taxes, unfortunately that’s a situation we have to except.
Most men are caught in a web of sold dreams, from marriage to patriotism to their job. Even in their dreams most men are hos, dreaming about becoming a professional athlete. The athlete is drafted by his owner who works him until he drops while the rabid fans trick off on star worship believing that they have an effect on the team’s success. The athlete will take his hoing international putting himself and his owners brand on billboards and advertisements.
The athlete holds on to fading glory past what his body can handle because he’s addicted to the game. In the same way a ho leaves a pimp for another pimp, an athlete leaves an owner for another owner.
A human being was not evolved to work a desk job for 50 hours a week, but we’ve been programmed to do just that, and have been sold a dream so hard that we focus our whole lives on advancing our level of servitude. Moving from account manager to division manager from associate to VP makes no difference, you are still hoing. If you work a job, your boss is your pimp, you are a ho, if you believe one word he tells you about your future that is not you being a wage slave then you are buying a dream. Mickey Royal explains:
The C.E.O has made a decision to put aside everything in his life in order to build his company(stable), his relationship with his wife, his kids, they all suffer for him to pursue his pimping. To become a pimp you have to leave the square world (job) and enter the life (hustle, your own business).
When you go back to work tomorrow recognize the game for what it is, the owner is your pimp, your division manager is his bottom woman who keeps the place running for an extra $15,000 a year, and you are the ho. You live month to month with nothing to show for it.
The boss plays his ho’s against each other just like the pimp, seeing who has the highest sales figures, leveraging competition and jealousy. And in the same way a ho doesn’t want to manage her own life an employee’s main reason for not starting a business is simply inertia or not wanting to manage the necessary headaches. People can’t figure out why a ho chooses a pimp yet they still report every Monday morning for a 50 hour work week and call another man their boss.
Leaders are born not made. Our elite pimp a dream, knowing if they control the alpha male they control society. Man is a natural leader in relationships. If you’re a frustrated follower that’s because you need to lead, you were born to lead. This advice isn’t for everyone, the world needs followers, but if you’re reading this site, you aren’t one.
A soldier will fight and die in a foreign country for $50,000 a year so our elite can control more oil and territory because he believes in a dream. That’s how strong pimping is, compared to his sacrifice what a ho does for her pimp is nothing. You need to remember your government and your employer do not have your best interests at heart, they are your pimp and you are their ho.
Do you have a boss? You’re a ho
Do you have to ask your boss for vacation time that should be rightfully yours? You’re a ho
Do you have team spirit and believe in “your” companies’ mission? You’re a ho
Do you believe your retirement will be your golden years? You’re a ho
Are your resources dependent on what another man chooses to give you? You’re a ho
Hos believe in dreams, you need to believe in yourself. Ho’s need someone to manage their life, their business, their finances, you only need yourself. If you’re not a pimp then why play the game, only a king enjoys the castle, a slave is still a slave, even in a nice castle.
This doesn’t mean you should exploit or lie to others, but it means you damn sure won’t ho for others that do. You can work independently, hire contractors or have employees that you treat well. It’s sad how most people will be lifelong slaves, many not even knowing it, but that can’t be you, you will claw, kick and scratch your way out. Working for someone else, calling them boss, grovelling for your free days each year, that’s no way for a man to live his one life.
There are plenty of people who can handle that arrangement, but if you’re reading this blog, that’s not you. Once that is burned into your head you’ll realize that working for someone is no longer an option and you will do whatever it takes for your freedom. The only thing worse than being a ho is being a trick, being a trick means you don’t pay for your dreams with just your time, you pay for them with your time and your money.
Do you take your hard earned wage slavery money and buy status symbols? You’re a trick
Do you argue over which party to support in “your” country? You’re a trick
Do you spend your free time supporting “your” team? You’re a trick
Do you go agree to a lifetime of debt slavery for a house you can’t afford?You’re a trick
You need to recognize your trick tendencies and control them. Being a trick means you get sold dreams by pimps and hos. From the government, to teachers, to advertisers to the media you’re being sold dreams on how to think, how to live, and how to act. Don’t think that any of it isn’t deliberate, that we have less propaganda than other countries from other time periods. We are raised as Cultural Marxists at the shrine of personal materialism dictated by wealthy elites, enforced by the government, police and corporatocracy.
How The Pimp Game Explains Relationships
Iceberg Slim relates the pimp philosophy to square relationships in an interview with The Washington Post like this:
My theory is that some quantum of pimp in every man would perhaps enhance his approach to women…Because I think it’s a truism that women gravitate to a man who can at least flash transient evidence of heelism. . . Women are prone to masochism, anyway.
In the pimp’s mind, the average man is brainwashed to be pussywhipped starting with their mother training them to be a “gentleman”. To accept female dominance as the natural order of things with women controlling the goals of the family and the purse strings. Women are able to do this by withholding sex or affection because men are weak-minded and sexually undisciplined. The man’s masculinity has been subverted and exhausted by working a chump job all day. The husband becomes a trick in his marriage and outside of it, seeking prostitutes or internet porn for what he’s not getting from his wife.
Pimps believe men live in a covert matriarchy with the man being the head and the woman being the neck. In the “Anatomy of Female Power”, Chinweizu explains:
Men had the power to wage wars and make money, but women had the power to reap all the benefits of war and money without having to take any of the risks or doing the heavy lifting. Such is the male ego to believe their form of power is the most important form of power and status, the only one that matters.
Pimps believe that women have a naturally higher sex drive but through sexual control taught to her by her mother, she is able to enslave men to provide for her offspring. She is taught to save herself for the highest bidder, the generous guy who will treat her right. Women’s concern with offspring and security spills over into wanting to dominate men. Men don’t just “give” power to women, women actively and traditionally take it through superior mental moves. When it comes to sexual games, men are still playing checkers while women have always been playing chess.
Even in post-feminist society most of these realities hold true. Women aren’t financially dependent on men any more, but try going on a date and paying dutch, or wait for a woman to handle the bill, it’s not going to happen. Despite feminist rhetoric, women were never slaves to their husbands, but now women are slaves to faceless corporations who make them work 50 hours a week and don’t love them. When a boat sank it wasn’t slaves first to the lifeboats, it was women and children, women are and have always been treated better than men.
Feminism teaches women to try to chase a male ideal of power, money and status. To forsake their traditional power base, which is the cradle and the kitchen. For a small minority of dominant, non-maternal women this is a better system but not for the average women. She now has to work a low paying slave job for 50 hours a week and then come home and raise children while our elites get two slaves per household instead of one.
The post-feminist man is still a trick and even less pimpish then his macho predecessor, the result is the new feminist man who has been bullied, guilt-tripped and ego-bashed into a shell of a man who is ashamed to be masculine. Women now have equal material power and still have all their traditional sexual power and privilege. This gives the average woman much more power and entitlement than the average man.
Women also have less sexual interest in the post feminist man making them less happy in relationships than ever as evidenced by a 50% divorce rate. This makes men and women unhappy. Men because their needs aren’t being met and their manhood is being eroded. Women because they don’t really want to control a man, once they do they lose respect for him and want to replace him with a new challenge.
The pimp believes, in the natural order of things that woman is a student of man who injects her with direction. Women are placed here by God to please man. Men can resist her will to dominate by strength of mind, as well as purpose and control of his sex drive.
A pimp programs a woman to be lucrative as a reflection of him while resisting her seductive domineering tendencies. Her wish to dominate is diminished by spending her energy on tricks. Pimps believe women should attach themselves to a man, love his greatness and be happy to help raise children. He thinks that without a man they become mannish freaks fucking anything. Woman will test for control but once she gets it she won’t want him any more and will look for a new man.
Pimps reverse the typical female-male sexual dynamic back on the woman by withholding sex and approval from the woman and doling it out as a reward for good behavior and compliance, something most men don’t have the self-discipline to do. Pimps withhold sex from prostitutes more than they actually have sex with them.
They view woman’s greatest gift is submission and man’s greatest gift is control. A woman’s power comes from withdrawing sex which men value more, a man’s from withdrawing the relationship which women value more, when a man adds sexual control to his repertoire it increases his power greatly. A pimp holds the keys to both and withdraws them whenever it suits him.
Pimps nullify the two most common avenues of female soft power: the motherhood dynamic and the sexual reward dynamic. A pimp knows a woman will fight him to the death for power, but once she gets it she will lose interest and move on to another pimp. It’s the same with square women, they might not leave the man but they won’t be happy with him and will spend a lifetime nagging him to pick up his socks.
Does your girlfriend tell you what to do? You’re a ho
Does your life revolve around your girlfriends’ agenda of social events and ikea? You’re a ho
Does your wife work you to death so she can stay at home and spend your money? You’re a ho
Unless you want to be a ho, you need to be a leader. I’m not telling you to abuse or exploit women, quite the opposite, treat them well but put yourself first. You need to have the mentality of a leader. As a man it’s your job to lead. There is no such thing as equality in relationships, only a leader and a follower, you need to be that leader.
If a man can get seven women to sell their body and bring him all the money, you can get one woman to believe in you and your life goals. If she’s not into that then she won’t choose you. If she doesn’t act right, you check her. If she wants to lead, cut her loose and let her find a beta male for that.
She’s either the ho or you are. She’s either a part of your program or you’re a part of hers. You can either worship or be worshiped. Women only love up, for her to truly love you, you need to put yourself first. If you don’t put yourself first, neither will she. If you don’t love yourself first, neither will she. Having standards and holding to them is more important than holding on to any girl. Always be willing to let her go, she needs to be more invested then you, any time she’s not it will cost you your power.
Get her to pay a choosing fee, she doesn’t have to pay you but she has to be invested, physically, mentally and emotionally. A relationship with you has to be earned, make her prove her devotion before you commit. If you have to wine and dine her just to keep her around then she’s not for you. She has to be behind your life plan and willing to accept your leadership.
Be a leader in your life, don’t ho or trick for anybody. Recognize game, understand that politicians, corporations, bankers and the media are pimping on you. Don’t buy the dreams they sell you. Recognize women will always be running game on you and testing your leadership, don’t believe the dreams they sell you.
If you want to get your life together you need to become become a leader in your thoughts, actions and words – across aspects of your life. Because when you don’t, you put someone else in the driver’s seat of your life. So be a leader and live life on your terms.
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