How To Fuck A Woman Properly

In this post I breakdown my ultra-practical, basic method for how to fuck women – written by a guy with actual real experience. Not a faceless internet marketer or content mill spammer. I put this together because I know that knowing how to fuck properly and getting your sex life handled is extremely important to every guy on this planet (no matter what they might say). But unfortunately, almost all the available information out there is garbage.

You either end up trying to learn from a sex guide by some lame married journalist with no sexual experience. Or even worse, you try to learn how to fuck real world women from watching porn. Porn sex, although somewhat useful to watch, is not a good model for what women really want and completely ignores the emotional elements that really turn her on.

If you’re serious about being good with women you need to have this area mastered because there is no better way to get women addicted to you then with good sex.


Sex Training

  • Fleshlight practice daily for increased stamina and desensitization
  • Daily moderate intensity cardio for stamina (15 minutes moderate speed)
  • Kegels daily for stronger erections

Ideal Conditions

  • No food 3 hours before, this will drastically increase your stamina and performance
  • Lube/condom/toys/baby wipes within close reach, ideally nightstand
  • Showered
  • Bodily functions taken care of
  • Day Time/early evening sex as you’ll have more energy in general


  • Avoid caffeine, it’s a vasoconstrictor and a stimulant, you want your nervous system to be relaxed for good sex
  • Generic Cialis for physiological erectile dysfunction or performance anxiety, with prescription
  • Yohimbine for physiological and psychological erectile dysfunction + extra energy
  • Phenibut for performance anxiety and stronger bliss sensations and emotional connection


  • At least 10 minutes of foreplay is ideal
  • The exception to this would be if she’s already super horny, say you’ve been sexting her on Tinder, then you can skip all the foreplay and get right into fucking
  • Usually though you want to start with kissing, stroking, rubbing her through her clothes, you can always rip her clothes off but usually it’s better to tease her with anticipation first, you want that pussy to be dripping by the time you touch it.
  • Tune in to the subtle ways she kisses/touches you and mimic her movements back to her to create a seamless rhythm and put yourself and her into a trance


  • Lots of intense kissing, eye contact, basically the opposite of porn star sex
  • Bedroom eyes while kissing and fucking her, make her look you in the eyes in missionary, it puts her in a trance
  • Ravish her
  • She’s fucking the image of you as a man, remember that so present a dominant, intense passionate man


  • Start slow to pace yourself, tease her, allow her to get really wet, allow both of you to develop a rhythm
  • Don’t just jam your cock into her, tease her with it, make her earn it, give her shallow strokes at first before you give her the whole thing, remember you need to lear how to fuck her mind first, her body second.
  • Try and maintain a steady rhythm at all times, this is very important, don’t switch positions every couple minutes like in porn, work on developing that steady stroke
  • Think about when a girl is giving you head, you don’t want her rhythm to be all over the place and she doesn’t want that from you either
  • Adjust your speed based on how she responds and what feels good for you, but try to stay at each rhythm change, either slow/medium/fast, for at least a few minutes before you change-up the speed
  • You can increase or decrease the speed but save the ultra fast pace for when she or you are getting close to cumming

Standing Doggy Style

  • Keeping her legs together works better for standing doggy style
  • Make sure she keeps her back arched so you can get in at a good angle, and get her to bend her knees if she’s too tall
  • It’s good to throw her against the wall to add some dominance or in front of the mirror
  • For extra dominance: pull her hair, spank her ass, get her to rub her clit

Kneeling Doggy Style

  • For small girls you can keep their legs together but for average sized to taller girls it’s better to be between their legs as her pussy will be too high otherwise
  • You can keep her legs together and go up on your feet in squat position and fuck her but this will wear your legs out in about two minutes
  • Another option is to keep her legs together but get her to rest her thighs on her calves so her pussy is at a good height


  • Missionary is my favorite position because it gives you maximum mental dominance by letting you stare into her soul when you fuck her
  • To really learn how to fuck on a deep level, you need to become a master of missionary, remember real life is not a porn movie and connection is key
  • The look you want is piercing and powerful
  • Show her complete dominance, kiss and you’ll both fall into a trance
  • Prop yourself up on your elbows and cup her face/head for a more romantic vibe
  • Wrap your arms around her tight, bring her in close and put your weight on her to make her feel completely enveloped in you
  • Grab her ass and push it against your cock so you get deeper inside, with the option of rubbing/fingering her asshole

Medium Missionary

  • In medium missionary you have her legs lifted at a medium level, between high and flat on the bed
  • Go deep and aim your cock up to hit her A spot just above her cervix, you will need your whole cock for this, the A spot is also known as the anterior fornix
  • Drop her right leg a bit lower and have her rub her clit in this position, this brings more girls to orgasm than any position I know

High Missionary

  • In high missionary, lift her legs high and prop yourself up on your hands or fists, think about high plank in yoga
  • Aim your cock up to hit her G Spot, you will only need about half your cock inside her to do this, the lower half of your cock should be rubbing against the lower lip of her pussy with your whole body moving as one
  • Watch as the girl stares entranced at your cock going inside her, girls love watching your cock fuck her
  • You can also lift your self onto the balls of your feet and use them to push off so you can add some extra force to your strokes
  • A variation of this is to arch your lower back as you’re pulling out then finishing each stroke with a powerful whip of your hips to really pound her deep

Girl On Top On Couch

  • You’ll want to be sitting straight up with your legs together while she straddles you
  • Control the tempo by moving her ass up and down or back and forth
  • Make sure to keep your dick angled towards her G spot, this position is very good for making girls orgasm and I like it a lot more than traditional girl on top because it’s more of an equal power dynamic

Girl Lying On Her Stomach

  • Keep her legs together with you straddling her either propped up on your hands or with your elbows or arms wrapped around her
  • This is another position girls really seem to love because it combines the angle of doggy style with the closeness of missionary
  • Girls always love the doggy style angle because that’s the position we’re designed to fuck in like every other animal in the kingdom
  • Additional option: rub her clit yourself, this is a very powerful tool in this position


  • Hot yoga for hips and arm/leg strength
  • Use the stationary Bike for high intensity training


  • If you feel like you’re getting close to cumming, slow down, focus on a point on the wall and take deep breaths in and out of your mouth
  • If that technique isn’t working you can go down and eat her pussy for a few minutes


  • Debrief her on how she orgasms after sex but don’t make a big deal if you can’t fuck her to an orgasm
  • If you can’t make her cum with your cock aim to make her cum with your mouth or fingers

Sex With A New Girl

  • Avoid couch sex for the first time, the bed will be your best performance
  • First time sex is always exciting (especially if its with a stranger who came (straight to your house off Tinder) so your goal should be to aim to last 10 minutes or more
  • Even seasoned vets like me my dick sometimes needs a cooldown period with a new hot girl, that means going slow even when she wants it faster
  • Don’t get too fancy the first time, the key is good foreplay, passion and adjusting to each other’s style
  • Debrief her after first time sex about what makes her cum and use that on her in the future
  • Debrief on what she fantasizes about but hasn’t done and use it on her in the future

Dirty Talk

  • All girls like dirty talk, the only question is the amount and the extent
  • Baby step with dirty talk, don’t expect much back from them except “ya”
  • Low self-esteem girls will like being called a slut and a whore and so will some high self-esteem girls, it’s all play and fantasy and not how you think of her

Rough Sex

  • Initiate rough sex in baby steps, hair pulling, ass spanking, biting, if she enjoys it you can increase the aggressiveness
  • Be dominant, no girl wants to take control in the bedroom, you only see that in porn movies, in real life a girl wants to be ravished by a dominant man


  • Sex with a condom will never be your best performance because you lose half of your precision
  • Girls will bleed/spot about 1/10 times you have sex
  • The more girls you have the more sexual confidence you get and the more relaxed you are
  • 1/3 of girls can’t cum without clitoral stimulation
  • Some girls can’t cum with a guy at all
  • Some girls cum/multiple orgasm very easily


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  • A hyper detailed reference manual on mastering the key sexual positions
  • An exhaustive analysis of how to make her orgasm
  • A rundown of the cutting edge drugs to use to make you a sexual beast
  • A complete description of her four major erogenous zones
  • The definitive guide to rough sex, BDSM and training submissives
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  • A comprehensive section devoted to spiritual sex including tantra and karezza
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  1. I’m skeptical about a lot of the tips given here. Not that they aren’t real and applicable but some might be overstated.

    The notes however (at end of article) were spot on and accurate.

  2. Hey Kenny, ya its definitely healthy to be skeptical, I think with anything on this site its about testing it out and seeing what works for you and discarding anything that isn’t useful.

  3. Well that was obnoxious. 1/3 of women come from vaginal intercourse. All women come from clitoral stimulation. Clits and Dicks are the same structure.

    Women like to be dominant in the bedroom, its not just a porn thing.

    Most women, and men, like to trade off.

    Spend 30 minutes on foreplay.

  4. Remember your philosophy of most results, least effort.

    It is possible to find and fuck super freaks who aren’t afraid to do the work and be dominant occasionally.

    I agree, Nothing is hotter and sexier to a woman than sneaking into her work’s gym after hours, putting her through a tough workout (with a short break between sets for a spontaneous bj just because a certain song came on) and pushing her against the wall in the shower and fucking her standing doggy style….

    except maybe for the next day letting her seduce me: cook for me, make Irish coffee as well as cold mixed drinks, while she proceeds to alternate sipping both while giving me the best head ever while I’m tied up and blindfolded.

    And next time she will be the one getting tied up, blindfolded and then spanked and punished. You can have your cake and eat it too. That woman was onto something about trading off.

  5. What do you think is a good position to start with. How long do you think you should wait to change position? How many positions does “good sex” have?

  6. Always missionary for the first time, its the best for bonding, eye contact, emotional connection, dominance and controlling your orgasm. Good sex doesn’t need position changes, its the emotional intensity that counts. If you’re going to change if up give it ten minutes, get in a rhythm and let her get used to your stroke, don’t change up every two minutes like in porn, that breaks the trance.

  7. I have a few questions. What is a good postion to start and end with. How long should you be in one positon. Whats a good length of time to be banging. And how many positions does “good sex” have. Thanks for the article.

  8. Missionary for both, good sex means taking the girl into a deep trance with you, there’s no need to switch positions. Girls on average like about 20 minutes, some girls start to get sore after that but some can fuck for hours. If you want to fuck for hours, stay in missionary and give her those slow/medium deep intense strokes. That’s the best way to control your nut and make sure your cardio lasts.

  9. Women are turned on more by the emotional intensity then anything else. When you show extreme passion, enjoyment and desire for her she’ll love any position.

  10. Thanks man. If Im getting to close I’ll go down on her or use my fingers, that gives my dick time to cool down while still getting her off. Let your dick cool off for a few minutes then go back at it.

  11. It’s nice to read an article about this where you can tell the guy actually does have experience. But I feel like most of these things will only make sense to guys once they are well into the double figures – it’s the difference between knowing and understanding I guess.

    I would add a couple notes;

    – With most girls, you can be rougher than you might think at first.
    – If a girl is willing to have sex with you the first time she meets you, she’s probably bad news.

  12. Is it true that those men who masturbate can fuck for long without cumming? Does also the size of the Dick matter?

  13. If you train yourself to hold off on ejaculating when you’re masturbating it definitely helps you last longer in bed. Yes dick size matters but only when its too small or too big. When your dick I’d too small girls will have trouble feeling it, when your dick is too big it will hurt many women. Although some women are size queens and only want big dicks, they are usually the minority. The average penis is 5.5 inches hard so as long as you’re bigger than that you should be fine.

  14. Good tips bro, I did what you said and got it all at the first time, girls ask a lot of questions :).

  15. This is some good shit. And triple digits!!?? Holy shit man, you’re a living guru ha. Much respect. Also It is no question that feminine women love rough sex. if you’re man enough to give it to her the right way she will cum like a volcano.. I’ve gone as far as choking girls to orgasm but that takes practice and a lot of self mastery before any average dude gives it a try. Nice post

  16. Thanks man. And ya absolutely, consensual choking is not for beginners because of the legal, physical and emotional ramifications. Guys need to be really careful with that one.

  17. Women who fuck on first meeting you are NOT all bad news! It just means she’s as liberated sexually as you are! (This is to the dude who made the comment). It’s not 1950 anymore, there are plenty of great women who are into hooking up these days, and if you discount the ones you have sex with, that is saying more about you than them!

  18. well i must say that I knew all whats in here lol …. but yes in the past i didn’t know much… all came with more girls as you find out what different girls like and dislike heheheee

  19. Hey Frank, just don’t do anything you’re not comfortable with. But if you want to eat her ass, check out my article on giving a rimjob orgasm.

  20. I’ve a girlfriend from last Six months and she is fucked every week by me i usually have sex with her three or four times in every meeting. She kisses me hugs me and loves me a lots during sex but recently i came to know she has an other boyfriend and old one than me same relation with him too. How i can involve her only into me???

  21. J.R
    Good tips! I just lost my virginity and this helped me out a lot! I’m 16 years old, and my penis is 5 inches and it’s not that wide, do I still have more growing to do?

  22. Hi man, thank you for the tips!!!

    I’ve lost my first big love because i wasn’t really ready and had a very low self estim but thanks to you, i’m ready for the next one!

    That’s because of blog like these and online free REAL documentations (pdf of books) that guy can improve themself and learn how to please their women and you deserve my thanks for that!!!

  23. I have studied all n concluded that every girl like sex lasting hours which depend upon a man if he is healthy n having good diet without taking any pill which is possible. I am above 50 yrs n almost have sex daily for more than hour except foreplay m my partner allows as such. Because i dont use alcohal or smoking. As regards styles, sleeping style is the best which lasts longer sex n have no tyreness. Some times my partner says to get rest/gap atleast for two days a week which occurs a month during mensory period. My errection remains tight during sex time which goes down after discharge.

  24. I’m a woman and I read that just to see. I think it’s great! My tip to include in the notes is that most women will have a serious libido peak for a few days at ovulation time. I get so horny that I can be the most shameless seductress, and every man is always so turned on that I get fantastic sex. But as an experienced woman with a high sex drive, this is really good advice for men. Might have to save the link to send to a few men I know hehe

  25. This is some good shit.
    But it’s funny that i don’t really have problems in bed.. more ho to get them to the part where thy’r willing to get layd… maybe im to shy ore somthing.. ore im just the guy who is to nice to fuck.. :P

  26. I’m a girl and I enjoyed reading the article )) The author def knows his subject. He would get my time for sure :)

  27. What about if she has already come…But You didn’t?She asked me to stop and i had to. So i do not know how to manage The situation. Do i have to come before she asks to stop or keep on Till i come ignoring Her words?

  28. Thats ok, she probably asked to you to stop because she’s too sensitive after she’s cum, that means you’ve done well. Just get her to give you head if you want to finish off.

  29. I especially like the parts about looking into her eyes (and getting her into a trance) and getting into a good rhythm together. Like I said, he knows what he’s talking about.

  30. Have you done one of these articles for women on how to fuck men? I’d be very interested to read it!

  31. Haha, I haven’t, not quite my area of expertise but thank you. Luckily as a woman you don’t need to do nearly as much work, the biggest turn on is a woman who is uninhibited and enjoying herself.

  32. Good stuff, this sounds just like my boyfriend and I! But women also like to be a little dominant as well.. I know I like a bit of both

  33. Another one from woman and I gotta agree with the others here. These are pretty much great rips, but you are sadly missing out on a lot of fun if you think girls don’t really like to take the lead sometimes.

    For me at least, I want my man to be dominant like 80% of the time, but the other 20% of the time I can get just as horny and dominant as any guy. And as another woman pointed out, that is particularly likely during ovulation.

    Since a lot of women are on birth control, they aren’t ovulating. Considering your “three digit same size”, maybe your sample group is just more likely to have altered hormone patterns from birth control.

    Safe sex is amazing and fun, but like you mentioned with the condom, a lot of birth control methods do somewhat diminish pleasure. Hours of sex with a reproductive partner is designed to be the best possible sex for both partners.

  34. How can you tell if a woman wants it rough (slapping ass, biting, pulling hair, ect.)? I feel as if asking before you do those things would be kind of lame “Oh do you mind if I pull your hair?”. Also my dick is a little longer than average, should keep from go deep at a fast pace so I don’t hurt her? How do I know when I can go deeper?

  35. Baby steps to answer both your questions. Eg. kiss her and lightly grab the base of her hair and see how she reacts. If she moves towards you/swoons that means shes into it, if she flinches that means she’s not. And slowly move up from there. The same with having a big cock, real world women aren’t porn stars so will have to be eased into it with only a few rare exceptions.

  36. hello will, hope you are fine i have only wrote to thank you for the good advice hope you will continue advising and so on but anyway i have one weakness that i panic a lot how can i control my panicking

  37. Thanks Omuche, I appreciate it. To control your panicking slow everything down. Don’t worry so much about trying to please her, just focus on being in the experience. Focus on your breathing, focus on the sensations as she kisses you, slow everything down. You can only get a proper erection when your nervous system is relaxed.

  38. As per your sample space how many married women you dated ….Do girls date/fuck married guys? Are they interested ? Please share your views

  39. Awesome post. Concise, to the point, no fluff. Thanks :) Some extra advice – how to avoid blowing too fast? With a baby in the family the sex just doesnt happen often enough, and I get so flipped on I blow in like 5 secs of getting inside. Annoying. Can repeat in maybe 15 minutes and take a minute or so… best is third time around, can last forever, but almost never happens as the wife is already tired out and dozes off. Argh. And also – how fast does your dick fall asleep if its not being actively stimulated? I find I faze out in a second once the stimulation stops, so no running around with a stiffie like the porn guys do it.

  40. Thank you my man. To answer your first point the best practice for that is edging, meaning masturbating to the point of orgasm and holding it their as long as you can without cumming. You can also use a fleshlight to help desensitize your dick to the feeling of pussy. Try and be able to work up to 20 minutes of continuous thrusting. As for the porn stars, those guys are all on cialis among other things probably some guys use caber or dostinex so I wouldn’t worry about comparing yourself to them. If you can get a hard on and cum three times in a night you’re doing great. Its the old saying if its not broke don’t fix it.

  41. Cheers. Can’t wait to fuck my girlfriend next week now. Won’t have seen each other for a few weeks and she’ll be in for a surprise. I’m good at going down but always been average at the actual fuck. Hopefully I can change that now. Thanks ks again

  42. Did you read my mind? I was a virgin when I married and although my husband had been in the double digits he didn’t know squat. Didn’t even know where my cilt was. And when I say squat I mean he didn’t even know how to kiss very well. He lasts on average 5 mins. Sometimes it’s 2 seconds and he’s spent. How do you teach a guy to one kiss you better and two figure out how to touch and eat me out down there? It’s not rocket science. I learned quite quick how to give head and swallow without gagging and he always asks for it but I need some consistent orgasms!

  43. Awesome. Great knowledge, but do all the girls loves the same? I mean to say that do all countries love the same method??

  44. Hey dude awesome shit here, nice job haha Can i ask you some more advice on something? I’ve been talking to this girl alot over social media ever since we hooked up a few days ago and she’s ‘cumming’ over soon hopefully hahah just wondering what i should do after sex? like video games, make food or have a shower with her or something. cheers bro

  45. Thanks Brad. Good question. All women are different. The only way to see what works on that particular woman is to try it on her or to ask her. A great time to find out what a woman is into is directly after sex, she’s at her most honest at that time. With that said there are a few things that almost all women like. The like a dominant, passionate man who is also sensitive to their body. They like having their pussy eaten. And they like passionate sex in missionary, doggystyle and girl on top.

  46. Haha thank you. With all the information available for free online your husband should be ashamed. I think you have to an honest but gentle conversation. This is a very delicate area for men so instead of telling him what you don’t like tell him what you do like. Especially when you are having sex. Tell him things like: I love it when you finger me like this, Go slow so we can keep going-I love how you feel when you’re inside of me. Maybe show him an article like this and tell him how sexy you found it. If he offers resistance and he probably will, just tell him things are great but you want to make your sex life more exciting and more fun. Always emphasize the positive and try and avoid saying anything negative about his performance. Sound good?

  47. Hey man its video games guy again… she just told me shes a virgin, so do i just take it easy or do i have to do something special?

  48. Yep, there is nothing special about virginity. That is of course if she’s comfortable with it. Not every girl wants to be in love to have sex, many just want to get it over with and start having a sex life.

  49. Hey will that rhythm stroking is dead on point you really know what you are talking about I did the aging thing and it gave me a lot of stamina which caused me to have a good rhythm for about 20 minutes and my wife squirted for the first time,couldn’t believe it,it was unreal
    but that steady stroking if you can maintain it it is awesome dude. Thanks!

  50. What’s going on Will. It’s about to be my first time having sec in a couple of weeks. Any tips that you have for me?

  51. Thanks man. Fantastic article that is right on target. I’ve used some the points you made and know they are right on. Learned a few ones from you and will be using with new girlfriend to intensify our fuck time.

  52. Hey buddy, just go slow, that will help you last longer. Focus on your breathing and the sensations in your body so you know when you’re getting close to cumming. With that said key is don’t worry about it too much, no one is amazing there first time, 10 years down the road it will be a distant memory. If you can make it through 10 minutes of missionary your first time thats huge. Just make sure to give her lots of cuddling afterwards, especially if its her first time.

  53. Hey all of this stuff is bang on am always looking for new stuff to bring to the bedroom I’ve been doing all this for years and it really is the truth it’s good to see real information out there for people that don’t know thanks man I I got a tip to don’t close your eyes it will bring u to your climax fun fucking keep up the good news

  54. Nice article u got here,
    I had sex last week and she said she couldn’t feel my D on the beggining and that after some minutes she started feeling it.
    Is it normal? Mine is 8.3inches hard

  55. A lot of people failed at what you accomplished, simply because they were busy finding problems while you were busy finding solutions. Well done.

    Doing anything with perfection is like wearing an impeccable suit – the best way to make a great impression. Well done.

  56. I have a question re you saying that 1/3 of females can’t come without clitoral stimulation. I am one of them & it makes me feel I’m really missing from out & also kind of inadequate; like a man with a small dick. I would like to know if it is much less fun to fuck with a female who can’t come from fucking alone, & also if you have known anyone who was able to learn how to (I’m 36 so I’ve had time to try almost every way I’ve heard of). Thanks!
    This is a great post, I would also like to agree with the many other females who have said that being more dominant can be fun too although definitely submissive is my overall favourite.

  57. Hi Sonia, I would say its less fun for sure but definitely not a huge deal. In fact some of the best sex I’ve had was with a woman who couldn’t even orgasm in the presence of a man. As far as being inadequate I wouldn’t worry about this at all, your pussy feels just as good as everyone else’s. With a small dicked guy his cock generally won’t feel as good as others because he won’t be hitting the right spots unless he’s in the right position.

    As for learning I haven’t known any women who’ve learned but I also haven’t known of any women who’ve tried. I think you definitely have the right attitude. My advice would be to from now on only masturbate with a dildo. Avoid your clit completely and learn which spots you like. It might take a few months but by then you’ll be dying for an orgasm, I think its definitely possible. And thanks for the support.

  58. Hey I understand the thing about being dominant but I also have a fantasy of worshipping a woman’s feet and being a ” slave to her”. How can I go about getting a girl to do kinky fantasies with me?

  59. Thats something you’ll have to pay for, women aren’t into that kind of thing. You might get a gf who will do it to make you happy but even then she’ll lose respect for you. Better you get it handled, those kind of things are unbecoming of the kind of man we promote here.

  60. I have a girlfriend who does it for me all the time and I feel she hasn’t lost respect. She still cooks for me, cleans for me, gives me massages and buys me stuff but I want to find other girls without paying to do it for me. I found a couple but they were all 5’s or below ( overweight). I’m really alpha outside of that and in the bedroom at other times it’s something I like to do when I’m super stressed and want to let go.

  61. Alright so I know what turns my girl on, 1 thing is she says she likes her inner thigh and back being slight scratched while im kissing her stomach, I know missionary can let me kiss her stomach and scratch her inner thigh, but how do I kiss her stomach and scratch her back at the same time, like what posistion?

  62. Will. Thanks for the detailed article. I love the balanced approach you give of being a strong aggressive take charge man in bed and in life but yet sensitive and passionate. Good stuff. Where can I get your other sexual or personal improvement articles? I just subscribed. Peace bro! Last do you have any sexual tips for us guys with longer and thicker penises?

  63. Seems like you have a monopoly on all the pussy in the United States. Lol. For us guys who don’t get as much. How much is too much masturbation? How often do you do it with your edge/masturbate? What’s unhealthy. Great post bro!

  64. Thanks Mike. I jerk off every day now as I’m getting to a pretty insane level in my tantric masturbation practice. I’ve also gone without ejaculation/masturbation/porn for about 7 months. None of it is unhealthy as long as you don’t ejaculate. The more you ejaculate the less energy, vitality, power, zest for life etc. you’ll have. My ideal ejaculation is never.

  65. I’m not sure I understand you. I take it you mean you lose interest the second time you fuck a girl, this is natural, its called the coolidge effect. The best way to keep your interest in any girl is not to masturbate, watch porn or ejaculate.

  66. how can i leave porn watching and be respecfull infront of my self although i,never experienced real sex (forbeden in my traditions except your wife ) to marry here it is a tragedy and if you practice sex without marriage no one would give you his doughter

  67. Sir Really the info are awesome … good to read that … some info are absolutely correct …. something is not possible for us to do this according to me … but over all this is really very very good …

  68. Hey Will. You got experience with and any tips on fucking cougars? Anything on handling a pussy that might be a little on the loose side? Got a pending “date” with a hot one and want to optimize the fuck for both of us.

  69. Hey will just when you said before that you choose not to ejaculate, when do you choose to stop having sex? I’ve been with my gf for like a month now and we’ve been having sex every now an then but I cant cum when we do, still feels great though but i think she’s upset that she can’t do it haha, i know it’s because I masterbated too much before meeting her( haven’t masturbated since we’ve been together), will I eventually be able to cum? Or will the pleasure decrease because of the Coolidge effect or whatever ? Cheers bro

  70. HI Rupert, you’ll eventually be able to cum but your brain needs time to reboot from what I’m guessing is a porn/masturbation addiction. Check out The pleasure will always decrease because of the Coolidge effect eventually but in the coming months if you keep from masturbating, porn and ejaculation your interest in her will go through the roof. When you’re able to cum again with her I would still advise against it so you can keep that continual high/enjoyment of sex. Also you need to explain to girls the situation, most girls take it personally when you don’t cum because they’re massive narcissists, just explain to her that its super important to your mood and you want to keep your interest in her strong.

  71. Yeah I came in her today funnily enough, I see what you mean about feeling less interested in her haha. So I’ll take your advice and keep the ejaculation to a minimum because it may feel good but it also takes a piece out of you… Thanks for the input bro <3

  72. Hey Willy,, I have read all the info, but my problem still exist.. I usually ejaculate within 3 min, & I hv tried to thrust slowly & control ma breathing rate but to no avail.. So what else shud I do to last 10 min, 20 or even more? Plz help am afraid that I might lose ma belovd one bcoz of this… I really need to last longer

  73. An awesome post to have an ideal sex… Having sex with your girl is not only a game of dik & pussy, mental satisfaction should be there too..

  74. Hi Will, great article with covers almost everything on how to satisfy a woman in bed. I bumped into your website today and already have it bookmarked.
    I’ve been together with my girl for six months now, we’ve been fucking three times or more every week. I have a small dick compared to my fellow Africans, she even said it too, but I’m not ashamed of it and very proud. It used to bother me alot, it no longer does cuz I have accepted the way I am. Instead of thinking negatively, I decided to focus on a solution, the solution being “satisfying a woman in bed”. We always have missionary and never get tired of it, my secret is taking it slow, arousing her long enough before I even touch her vagina, plus she doesn’t like to be fingered at all, so the foreplay would involved not touching her vagina at all until penetration. It’s amazing what you can do with your hands, feet, nose, head and tongue. We start off by some intense foreplay that takes anything from 10-30 minutes, sometimes an hour. Afterwards I don’t rush to just stick it in, I make her beg me. I then proceed penetrating her at different speeds, I make sure I don’t cum at all for at least 10-15, I take breaks to muff her if I’m close to cuming. 80% of the time the position we use is missionary, then I lift her legs and put them on my shoulders, that’s her favourite position of all time with me cuz she always speak in languages when I fuck her that way. I would go two rounds without stopping in that position, her pussy would stay wet all the time. I say high missionary is best, we still doing it six months later and we not planning to change it cuz it’s not broken.
    To all the other guys who are small or feel insecure about their size, I say focus on developing your oral game and foreplay; if you can make a girl cum she’ll always come back to you.
    Thanks for a great website Willy…all the way from Soweto, South Africa.

  75. Hey Mush thanks for the kind words. You’ve got a great attitude and this is exactly how all guys who are below average should think. You’ve outlined some great tactics for other small guys and I agree legs up missionary is the best position for small guys to go deep.

  76. Hi dear I’m from Pakistan,and I’m Muslim.I have passed Matriculation and i’m very interested to marry with Britain or any foreign country girl. So plz I request you to help me in acheiving that wish. I beg you to marry me in your country.
    Your sex tips are amazing. But i couldn’t have sex?Tell me what is meant by two figure and three figure?

  77. Hi Umar, thanks for your support. With that said I think the best thing would be to marry a girl from your country and religion. It would be very difficult for you to get a foreign girl and bring her back to Pakistan. Also there would be massive problems in terms of her accepting your culture which means there would be a lot of fighting between her and you as well as your family. Better to find a nice girl from your country who shares the same values to marry, then you can have all the great sex you want.

  78. Wow everything stated is exactly what i want from a man in the bedroom. How do i let a guy know what i want though

  79. This stuff is good for those in marriage and the unmarried.It strenghtens the bond of relationship .Thank you !!

  80. thump up men… my quiz is do regular sex makes girls love sex? because i have met girls who at first never loved fucking but after first fuck they will always be back and again for sex

  81. Thanks man. Theres a couple things to do, try practicing with a fleshlight for one, check out my article on that. Try the tantric edging/masturbation, check my article on that. And pace yourself, that means for the first 10 minutes, especially with a new girl, go really slow. Slower then she wants you to. Once you get past that 10 minute mark your dick will relax and will be a lot easier to control.

  82. i had sex for the first time and i couldn’t penetrate her. i cummed before and then couldnt get on it.
    is that normal ?

    second day i did it. i fucked her but i didnt feel anything special. does the condom effect on that ? i feel more when i masturbate than when i fuck with condom :/
    never tried without condom …

  83. Hi WILL! Thanx for the good job. Each time I fuck my girl and she eventually ORGASMS before me then that’s the end of the show. I mean she would start saying she’s tired, it’s hurting and stuff like that. What do I do to fuck her till I cum too?

  84. Hey man, what you can do is tease her everytime she’s getting close until you’re ready to cum. With that said she should be making sure you’re getting off too.

  85. I meet up with a girl from tinder and we had sex direct after she closed her door she took off her pants. In the bed I’m pretty dominant and love rough sex. I fucked her in 3 positions in 20 minutes. She came once. And I tried to finger her ass she was ok with that then after a couple minute I put my cock in her ass she screamed that it hurts and become a little bit sad, I said sorry and fucked her again in the pussy and then she said after a minute that she wants me to come. So I come her in her mouth then she dressed herself and then I noticed that this gave me the signal that I must go home so I got dressed and now when I came home, she removed the match. Is it a sign that she does not want to hook up more and it was for I put my cock in her ass without ask for it? I already have her number. Sorry for my english!

  86. Yes you should not have put your cock in her ass without asking for it or without being gentle at first and letting her say yes with her body language. It also sounds like she was looking for a one time thing and just wanted sex.

  87. Thanks for replay. But isn’t unattractive to ask promotion for doing something in the bed? I mean don’t I lose the dominance to ask if I can put my cock in her ass?
    I also wonder if it’s ok to ask the girl in the bed how she wants it?
    well I’m just confused.

  88. BTW do you think I should send a SMS and write and apologize if I tried to put my cock in her ass without ask her? Becuase I want to see if she is willing to hook up again or what should I write?

  89. Sure, What I mean is you have to monitor how she reacts especially with a new girl. If you’re going to pull her hair do it lightly at first to see if she likes it and you don’t need to ask permission, if she moans then she’s into, if she looks uncomfortable then you should stop. But fucking her in the ass is a much bigger step then hair pulling , especially on the first date. Its also something that most girls find painful and aren’t used to. If you’re going to try for it should go for it real gently and slow at first so she has time to consent non verbally as opposed to jamming it in their and shocking her, make sense? Being dominant is good but you have to be able to read her signals, if you can’t then its best to ask, remember there are legal ramifications to this stuff so you always have to protect your own ass.

  90. You could do that since objectively it wasn’t a very nice thing to do. You can just say look I’m sorry I tried to put it in your ass, you’re just really sexy and I was so turned on I wasn’t thinking straight, I’m sorry if I hurt you. Don’t push the meet off the apology though, wait till you get back in rapport. If she doesn’t respond then its over

  91. What you mean by “remember there are legal ramifications to this stuff so you always have to protect your own ass.”?

    Btw I apology it and she replay me “it’s ok, but im not interested to hook up more, don’t write to me again”

    Me: “ok but I just want to know why?”
    She: “I’m just looking for ONS and want to try at once, but I got no good feeling. it does not mean there is something wrong with you. Stop write to me now”

    What does she mean that she didn’t got good feeling?

  92. It means she wanted to try a one night stand and felt guilty about it and doesn’t want to see you anymore because you remind her of the guilt. And legal ramifications are rape and assault accusations, you never want a girl leaving your house unhappy.

  93. I’m not to overthink for a girl and we learn from our mistakes but In what way have I made her feel guilty?

  94. that’s realy good lesson foe me. but how can a man know that a she is hungry for fucking or she wanna be fuck . I mean how I can search a fucking hungry girls or women

  95. Thank you, you can go the standard route of going on dates and asking them home, or you can try tinder and screen for women who are sexually available

  96. Hey Will,

    I’m a college student who is struggling with some performance anxiety issues. I lost my virginity as a sophomore in high school, and was having sex for about 3 months, and then didn’t really get any penetration(just 3rd base) until college. First time I had sex in college, I had a bit of trouble getting it up, and then ended up finishing way too fast, and the girl LEFT ME, which was kind of a huge blow to my confidence, which had been pretty high before that. Ever since that, for the past year or so, I have been unable to rise to the occasion in the heat of the moment, whether inebriated or not. Lately, I’ve been on quite the hot streak with women, but I’m often afraid to take them home for fear of making an idiot of myself in the bedroom. And even when I do take them home, Im preoccupied with my erection, and it always goes away the closer I get to penetration( and then comes back right after Im sheepishly pulling the “its not you” talk. I’ve read your book “How to fuck women properly”, and have been practicing the kegel and edging techniques, but I want to know if you have any advice for me to get over this hump, and fuck all these girls that are into me.

    Its absolutely killing me that its not my ability to talk to women thats restricting me, but my fear of embarrassing myself in the bedroom that is.

    Do you have any advice for me so that I can get over this hump? I feel like even if I have actual sex just once, I’ll at least be able to work from there.

  97. Hey man, I sent you a response to your email. To recap it for the other guys, drop women to your fourth priority as outlined in my how to get your life together article, this will take the pressure off. Stop jerking off completely, no PMO until you handle premature ejaculation, within three weeks you’ll be a beast. Go to your doctor and get some Cialis, and take a quarter of a 20 mg tab, just tell him the truth, you’ve been struggling with ED for the last year, take that before you have sex, it’s the ultimate insurance policy. Lastly don’t worry about it, nearly every guy goes through either premature ejaculation or erectile dysfunction at some point including me, no big deal at all.

  98. Hey Will, thanks for the response. Got a big date tonight(with the same girl that was the root of my confidence problem, actually). Wasnt able to get access to Cialis, but I’m feeling pretty confident without it. Haven’t orgasmed since your response to my email, hopefully everything goes well.


  99. Good stuff man, let me know how it goes, but go get that Cialis, nothing to be ashamed about, your doctor sees guys all day long asking for it.

  100. I had a lady and cheated me with a married man who took her for three days in a hotel in Mombasa. They fucked each other, and what is funny the man fucked her from behind all the time. The lady is really begging me to have back and she had to tell me everything the man did for her, even the size of his dick she claimed to be big and wide which made her to bleed and experience pain the whole week.
    Am average man in dick size compared to that man who fucked her and I really don’t want to have her back but she really insists and pleads everyday to forgive her. How can I go about it??

  101. Greetings! Quick question that’s completely off topic.
    Do you know how to make your site mobile friendly? My site looks weird
    when browsing from my apple iphone. I’m trying to find a theme or plugin that might
    be able to fix this problem. If you have any suggestions,
    please share. With thanks!

  102. Thank you, my advice is to pickup a premium template from themeforest that already comes installed with responsive (mobile) design. Not only will your site look better but it will look great on the phone, you can pick one up for about $40.

  103. Hey good content Will.

    I’m pretty experienced myself well into the double digits , and I agree with much of what you say .

    However , what do you do when you last too long ? And have too many erections ?

    When I’m with chicks I last a good while and I’m pretty aggressive and Decent size so they are normally pretty sore after the first time I cum. ( they have also had 4-6 orgasms at this point ) but right after I cum my cock is still hard and ready to go for round two. However at that point they can’t go anymore leaving me frustrated. Any tips on how to cum quicker ??

  104. Thank you, and that’s what we call a high quality problem, don’t worry about it and focus on getting control of your cock instead of your cock controlling you. Check out my articles on male multiple orgasms and tantric sex. Until you get control of your cock, some girl will always be able to control you through it.

  105. Hey Will, great stuff you offer here. I fuck my girl most of the time, after she cums once, she always gets done with the sex, I have also tried to make her squirt like my previous girl to no avail. I am average in size,she says she likes the sex we have but I feel unsatisfied, I’ve even asked her if she’s ever squirted and said no, although there is a time she felt like peeing. Is there something I should know about this or is it me that is not good enough?
    Lastly, what’s the meaning of double digit?

  106. Will,

    First time commenting on your website, but I’ve read everything you’ve written or posted for the most part. From the bottom of my heart, thank you for the value you consistently add to my life. I’m not one to use reading self-development as a guise for taking action, so I want you to know that what you’ve written has had a direct improvement of areas of my life/ways of thinking already. Most of all, my desire to get out of sales and build a service-based business in the future.

    Now on to my question about sex. I don’t worry about how long I last or anything like that, because I’ve spent years reading and working on it. However, I’ve always had a long refractory period.

    1. Do you have any advice on how to shorten this?

    -Mental exercises

    When my girls come over right now, I’ll probably only fuck them twice in about a 4-5 hour period. Perhaps one solution is to not cum every time I have sex? But interested to hear your expertise.

  107. Thats amazing, I’m humbled and happy I had an impact, thank you so much for your support.

    As for your questions, I have a long refractory period as well, and it’s been that way since my mid 20’s.

    – TRT made a difference to some degree but not huge, would not recommend just for refractory period
    – Not watching porn or jerking off make a mid sized difference
    – Ejaculating as infrequently as possible makes a mid sized difference

    No jerking off, no porn and ejaculating as infrequently as possible would be my recommendations. Cialis with prescription only helps moderately. Would rec ejaculating as little as possible for quality of life too, best anti depressant I know of.

    No drug I tried made a major impact, even l dopa was minimal, the ones that would would be dopamine agonists/prolactin decreasers like cabergoline but I do not want to start fucking around with those.

  108. Thanks for the response Will.

    I’m getting my T levels checked in March.

    I’ve stopped masturbating again, and now thats a rule and something I’m sticking to. So to be fair, that should make a difference.

    Ejaculating infrequently is a goal of mine. With my main I’ve said to her I don’t want to cum when we have sex all the time, so it’s learning to disassociate having sex with ejaculating.

    Lastly, I would love to know if I could add value to your life in anyway, shape, or form. I’ve turned about 10 people onto your blog from a forum (won’t mention it, but it’s an elite one and not known.)

    If you could tell me about any areas of your life you need help with, I might be able to recommend some books?

  109. My pleasure Jordan, good to hear and thanks for your kind words as well as pointing other guys to my site. That alone is more than enough and I really appreciate it. All I can ask is to put my program into practice and enjoy your life, and if you check in with me in a year or so to let me know how its going, and happen to turn some new guys onto my stuff along the way, I’d be more than grateful.

  110. Hi! I’m 18 and still a virgin, when I eventually get a girl into bed should I let her know beforehand that I’m a virgin? If you were in my situation what would you do?

  111. Im so glad I subscribed. I thoroughly enjoyed your post about ‘pumping’ I’m a 30 yo southern woman who grew up knowing and receiving “game” from my uncle’s since I was 12. And I consider myself a student as I have been raised my baptist mom Its hard for her to understand why I wanted drop out of school at 13 and start a business. My point is, I agree with your point of view completely I also WOULD love some advice. Several points you made were only theories in my mind about 14 years ago my Christian background made discerning truth back then very difficult as a kid. Lol.

  112. The Red Pill Theory is true from what I’ve experienced. It’s probably because since Day One (whenever that was) women are smaller, overpowered, have to be reliant on Man, do anything to survive. Like everything else, some will disagree. Didn’t want to believe it, but disproved that doubt. Go on the i (internet) and put red pill in.

  113. Something else about Red Pill – if you were a bird you would be doing this too. Believe they have to do this to survive.

  114. Hi will… Am 22 I started masturbation at16 until now. I want to stop it and start fucking (I have never fucked anyone) and become a good fucker…. Help me on tips on how to do it… How should i go about it now that am in college…. You advice will be greatly appreciated…. Straight from Kenya you got great stuff Will..

  115. Do you have any specific advice for guys who are little smaller?
    I’m 5×5 in and although I can make girls orgasm with my fingers with no problem, I feel unconfident with penetration.

  116. RE: Infection / disease.
    I don’t remember seeing anything about WHEN to take precautions ?
    Three times over the years when not using a condom I was exposed.
    – Chlamydia ( got rid of via shot )
    – Herpes ( didn’t get it )
    – Lice ( Washed off )

  117. Do you have any tips for having sex with a virgin?

    I’m with a new girl and I just took her virginity. It was painful for her but I managed to finish fast enough so she didn’t have to tell me to stop. We tried having sex another time and it was too painful for her.

    She’s very tight and I am kind of well endowed. Probably my girth is the big factor I’m guessing.

    I do a ton of foreplay and she gets pretty turned on, but at the same time she has a hard time relaxing and she is tense. My size combined with her basically being a virgin makes sex painful for her because I’m stretching her out every time we try.

    Do we need to just keep trying and eventually her body will get used to it and it won’t be painful for her?

    Or am I not doing foreplay right and she’s not getting turned on enough?

    I like this girl and I want to be able to have good sex with her. She is inexperienced and shy with sex though.

  118. Interesting read. My boyfriend told me he could fuck his old girlfriend face to face both standing up because of the direction of her cut. But I have a hard time that any. Cant hardly get his dick in that way, I’m better doggy or most any other position. Have you experienced this with your women? Is there something wrong with me that I cant do that standing and facing him?

  119. Interesting read. My boyfriend told me he could fuck his old girlfriend face to face both standing up because of the direction of her cut. But I have a hard time that any. Cant hardly get his dick in that way, I’m better doggy or most any other position. Have you experienced this with your women? Is there something wrong with me that I cant do that standing and facing him?

  120. I don’t think Will is there anymore.
    To 50 yr girlfriend…no one can stand facing and really fuck. Physically not possible. Might get a dick in some if he’s extra long but it won’t stay. To 19 yr old anonymous…masturbate until you’re almost ready to cum and then stop. Come down some and then build it up again and stop before you cum. With practice comes control.

  121. How can I control my self to increase on the time (to have long sex).
    It is painful to last for few minutes

  122. Why are some girls refuse to be undressed mostly those nickers $ hardens the situation for you to reach the porn

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