How To Eat Pussy: How To Make Her Cum Consistently

When it comes to getting laid you want to know how to give her an orgasm consistently because you want your woman happy and satisfied so that she comes back for more. That means you need to know how to eat pussy. Because your dick, although I’m sure you love it, is not always consistent. That’s because a woman’s most erogenous zone, her clit, is not inside her pussy.

The method I’m going to give you is effective but don’t get too hung up on trying to make her cum, if it doesn’t work, don’t worry about it. Many girls can’t orgasm with anyone. The most important thing for women in sex is the feeling you give her. That means if you want to learn how to ger her an orgasm consistently, you need to focus on the way you make her feel. Passion, intensity and a strong connection – all that good stuff.

The method I’m going to break down for you has worked really well for me and is based on 100% real world experience with over 100 girls. I’m not tellling you that to brag (ok I’m bragging a little bit), I’m telling you that because I want you try it out and make your girl lose her mind. This isn’t some generic puff piece written by some married journalist, this shit really works. Here’s what you need to do:

How To Eat Pussy

The Method

  • The method outlined is meant to be used on its own, not before sex because it will make her cum hard and can ruin her interest in sex
  • Many times she’ll be exhausted afterwards and sore afterwards so give her a rest
  • The key to this method is the slow build up and teasing combined, you want her really wet but also really present mentally

Foreplay

  • Start by kissing, caressing and undressing her for about 15 minutes, tease her with the idea of touching her pussy, remember you always want to fuck a woman’s mind before you fuck her body
  • Gently kiss her upper thighs back and forth almost grazing her pussy for about 10 minutes, look up at her while you do this
  • Don’t be a robot about it either, moan and show you’re enjoying it, that it turns you on

How To Give Her An Orgasm

  • Start by gently kissing the outer lips of her pussy, as soft and gently as possible, she should shiver a little bit
  • If you want to learn how to eat pussy the right way, the key is starting slow so that you can build tension and anticipation
  • Do this for about 5 minutes, she’ll really want you to lick her clit but make her wait
  • Escalate to kissing the inside of her pussy at a medium pressure, kiss her pussy as you would her lips, you should be moaning and verbalizing how much you like it and how good she tastes, do this for about 5 minutes
  • Ease your way into wrapping your mouth around her clit while using your tongue to gently lick her clit upwards at medium pressure, keep your lips wrapped around her clit the entire time
  • Keep the same even tempo for licking her clit
  • Now slowly take your middle and ring fingers and slide them in her pussy which should be dripping wet by now
  • Put your pinky and index fingers just outside of her outer lips while gently pressing them inwards so that you are cradling them
  • Take your two fingers inside of her and rub them against the inner wall of her pussy in a come hither motion slowly increasing pressure on her g spot as she gets wetter
  • When possible look her in the eyes and continue to moan to show her how into it you are, imagine a girl giving you head and how much hotter it is when she looks up at you and moans
  • Aim to finger her pussy and lick her clit at the same speed, keeping the same medium tempo throughout
  • Keep going until she cums, this should take at most 15 minutes from when you started kissing her pussy
  • She might start to buck and writhe but keep focused on keeping the same tempo and pressure, only stop if she moves your head, this usually means she can’t handle the strength of the sensations
  • If she stops you but her pussy is super wet and horny you can try to make her squirt

Notes

  • Some women don’t like long foreplay and aren’t comfortable being eaten out, so if you get that vibe just skip eating her pussy and move straight into banging her
  • Some women don’t like to be fingered while they’re eaten out because its too intense, you’ll be able to tell if she subtly moves away from your fingers
  • If she does that just focus on her clit and wrap your arms tight around her thighs
  • 50 minutes might seem like a long time and you can always shorten it down,
  • At least try the long method once, remember its all about creating tension, sex is mental, especially for women which means you always want to fuck her mind
  • If she has a hard time relaxing, 750mg of phenibut is the perfect dose to get her relaxed and in the mood

Recap

  • Foreplay: 15 minutes
  • Kiss Thighs: 10 minutes
  • Gentle pressure kisses on inner lips 5 minutes
  • Medium pressure kisses on inner ips: 5 minutes
  • Eat and finger pussy: 15 minutes
  • Total Time: 50 minutes
  • Now that you know how to eat pussy and how to give her an orgasm consistently, go get a girl and enjoy yourself
 
  1. She says that she just dosnt want to and that she’s tired, the other day I got her horny and started to make a move on her and she still said no?

  2. She also say she’s just not motivated for it and her sex drive has gone but wen I got withe her the first 4 months it happend everyday like even if I put a finger in she would want it asap

  3. How can I make my man moan and orgasm when I play with his member it takes along time till he does or sometimes he won’t and my arms hurt jacking him off plz help

  4. My girl likes watching episodes of face sitting porn while I give her oral is this odd sexual behavior

  5. Hey thanks for the tips but i have experiences to share and i’d like your opinion on it.

    1) my girlfriend really likes it when my other hand just wonder on her body or grab her hips, tits, etc.. It can become a bit complicated to do 3 simultaneous actions so i wonder if most women are like that.(licking + fingering + hand touching) or if most of them are more concentrated on the two firsts and nevermind the “wandering hand”

    2) you said they liked eye contact but here i really need your help (well i’ll figure it out in the end but still…). She really can’t stand this and i don’t know why. I really like to see her come but she just doesn’t want me to look her in the eyes when i’m down… Is it normal? I mean she really HATES it… Strange as fuck no?

    3) finaly (sorry it’s long) she doesn’t come vaginaly (don’t ask me…) so this is pretty much the only way i can do it, Does ass hole licking makes it better for her? how could i pair the two? Do you think she might come from behind?

    Thank you for your time and your experience

  6. So it sounds like she’s shy and inexperienced, maybe you both are. I think the best thing to do is peel everything back. If she’s to any for wyw contact then build it gradually. Try standard missionary and get her to rub her clit, many women don’t come vaginally so don’t worry about that. If that doesn’t work then put her on her stomach and give it to her slowly while rubbing her clit. With all that said don’t get to hung up on her orgasm.

  7. My misses is shy and can’t come all time and don’t like to touched so much on the top of below her it’s annoys her what do I do to make come better and enjoy it more ?

  8. Ok, I would try after a few drinks and see if she loosens up, do lots of foreplay first and keep the lights off for the first few times so she can relax

  9. The no eye contact thing could be cos she’s ashamed.. I close me eyes all the time during sex then when I open them having someone staring at you so closely can be intense.

  10. This description you give is the way I’ve been doing it Since I was 12. If any girl I’ve been with read this article they would say now there’s a second guy on the planet that knows how to please a woman. The only difference is you don’t tell a girl how good they taste,they don’t want to hear that.

  11. Can i suck a virgin until she orgasm??? I planned giving her a thorough pussy eating before i can open her vagina. Please advice

  12. Married to a multi orgasmic woman.15plus yrs. Only prob is that she only cums with her on top. I would so lurve to be able to make her cum. She says she always knew that she wanted to be in control. She does not care for fingers inside her, loves been eaten out, but not for too long. Says her virgina gets sensative and takes “away from her cum’n” (go figure).
    I have tried just about everything under the sun. 1st the brain, then the body….to no avail.!
    She just has to be ontop!
    It would really make me totally happy to be able to make her orgasm.
    Any advice will be appreciated plzzz
    G

  13. Hey Gerry, unfortunately thats usually going to have to be something that she works on on her end. Many women train there bodies to orgasm in very specific ways and there isn’t a whole lot we can do. With that said you should find out what makes her cum on top. I’m guessing it’s g spot stim, you could try going at it in medium missionary angling your cock against her g spot. I also find lying down doggystle while rubbing her clit is a good way to go, with her legs together on your legs on the outside of her. With that said I think her problem is primarily psychological like it is with most women who have trouble orgasming.She’s unwilling to give you control and letting “you make her cum” either with fingers, mouth or on top. I would bet she has some distrust/contorl issues with men.

  14. I’m gonna meet this girl soon I don’t want to have sex so quick I just wanna finger her and make her want it more so the next time the sex will be great . What’s the best way to have her wet with ur finger any tips

  15. My gf likes sex chat by sms for few days in month. but she dident like in other times. so plz help me, how to convince her for sex.

  16. What do you recommend or any tips on preventing myself to cum too soon while havin sex? It didn’t happen all the time but sometimes it hits me hard. Usually wants to happen when she rides me

  17. Fleshlight training is awesome you can check out my post on that.Also check out my post on male multiple orgasms/tantric masturbation, its good for cock control. Missionary, slowly for the first 10 minutes is important too, that gives your dick time to cool down, once your dick cools down. If PE is a problem, dont let her get on top.

  18. Damn boy are you available for a physical demonstration lol? But on a serious note, How can I convince my husband to watch this without hurting his ego?

  19. Haha, thank you. I would sell it on something that feels really good. Like I love when you eat my pussy, and I’ve been so horny thinking about it that I google it, and I found this method that I think would be so hot to try with you: check it out here. That way you’re already conveying he’s sexy, and that you enjoy sex with him and showing him how to make it better without hurting his ego.

  20. my gf wants to try anal umm and i love her i’d do anything for her but if it’s gonna hurt her body or something i don’t to do it so it’s all good for anal?

  21. Will, you are the fuckin man brother. I’ve never understood the technique on how to make my girl squirt, but tried it and was successfull last night. You’re right, the bed sheets needed changing and there was a faded buttery popcorn aroma. I totally ate her pussy after and she went wild again. Once again thank you brother!

  22. I Don’t Disagree With What Mr. Will I Am Freeman :) Is Suggesting Here, BUT I Think EVERY WOMAN IS SEXUALLY TURNED ON BY DIFFERENT FEELINGS, STRENGTHS, MOTIONS, LIKE LONG & SLOW, OR SHORT & QUICK. ALSO THE EXACT PART OF THE TONGUE THAT IS GIVING THE MOST ATTENTION, & WHATEVER ELSE SEEMS TO MAKIMG HER JUICES FLOW MORE & CLITORIS STIFFEN UP IS THE ABSOLUTE BEST WAY TO GO…YESSS I AM A VERY SEXUAL WOMAN WHO ADORES BEING ORALLY PLEASED BY THE RIGHT PERSON WHO ISN’T GOING TO TAKE ALL NIGHT TO MAKE ME CLIMAX SO HARD I MAY BE HOT ENOUGH TO FUCK HIS COCK LIKE A REAL WOMAN WHO WANTS IT BAD. xx

  23. It works. I’ve been married to the same woman for 23 years, and every time we have sex I give her oral to get her in the mood. I’ve given her orgasm a few times from Oral, and could have given her more. But she likes my penis for that, so after about 10 to 15 minutes of eating her out, she’s asking for my penis in the missionary position. After she cums, and she really cums, I turn her around, put a condom on it, and fuck her from behind, giving her a second more powerful orgasm before I unload with a massive shot of cum inside. We had our last child in 2003, and I’m not cool with getting fixed, so I use a condom from behind and shoot by load into that. I’ve never given her three orgasms. She’s very satisfied after two. She doesn’t want to kiss me after I’ve eaten her out. I love the taste of her vagina. But then I’ve been eating pussy since I was in high school, my favorite food. Give her oral, fuck her with your penis, and you will give her orgasm each time. Her sister as never had a single orgasm because her sisters husband doesn’t go down on his lady.

  24. I do release before she get satisfied nd that makes me bad nd she pushes me so hard but by the moment ill be done,what must i do to stay long

  25. Great Tips – especially from a female persepctive. Loved the added consent and focus on emotional connection. Sex for women is 60% mental and 40% physical.

    But just to let you know, you can’t “go back and forth” between vaginal and anal licking, this is unhygienic and will give her a urinary tract or bacterial infection and become very sore. (Stomach cramps, excruciating lower abdominal pain, discomfort passing urine, no sex untill it passes etc ).

  26. Great articles and feedback.
    Oral sex is the best. Eating pussy is an art. It takes time to perfect but is worth the effort. Men and need to tell their woman that their greatest desire is to make them cum. Once you get a woman to orgasim, they want you in the worst way.

    Work that pussy so it becomes yours to own and do what you chose with it. If she wants he asshole licked, make sure it’s clean and well manicured and lick it.

    In the end, if you will do “anything for her” she will do anything for you.

  27. Why my GF don’t cum while I’m inside, she only cum if I lick her and I asked her, she said it’s been like that since she know about sex life, no man win to make her cum while penis inside is it normal?

  28. My boyfriend and I have been having problems lately. Usually everything’s great–he’s dominant and very rough with me, we dirty talk, and he makes me squirt. The problem is, when we have foreplay, it’s hard for me to get off (clitoral orgasm). He likes to 69, so we usually do that, but I just can’t orgasm. I don’t know if it’s because I’m also helping him out so I lose some of that focus on myself getting off or if he wasn’t being consistent with a rhythm or a combination of the two, but when it doesn’t happen, I give up and end up crying, which makes him frustrated and he gets mad at himself thinking it’s his fault.

    So I looked up how to get off from oral sex so I could send it to him. I gave him some time to look it over, and I’m seriously fucking happy, because he did everything (except the rim job…because no lol) and I was finally able to orgasm through my clit! When I got suuuper close he pulled his fingers out so I was starting to lose it, so I told him to fucking put them back in and omfg… My clit was fucking throbbing/pulsating and my pussy was wet as fuuuuckkk! Lemme just say fucking THANK YOU for this! My legs never shuddered so much. The only thing he did that was different was when I still had my laced panties on, he was gently nibbling on them, which is fucking hot cuz it seems like he really can’t wait to eat my pussy. Omg. He wants to do it again tonight!!! And so do I for sure… (;

  29. Im lesbian.. My gf never cummed before.. I like eatin her pussy and she loves eating mine.. How ca. I make her cum.. She moans so hard and loud the sheets r always messed up from her grip. But she moves my head so much she likes my tongue inside of her pussyhole.. She shakes and her eyes roll in satiafaction.. But how do i make her cum?

  30. Had sex yesterday Even ate her out I think she really enjoyed it then took her after we had sex again in the car though I finished and ate her out again cause she told me she wasn’t finished so I ate her out till she finished I feel I couldve been to rough do they like rough when it comes to eating out? I mean she finished though lol but did she like it ? I’m confused

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