Relationship Management Part 1: Screening

Relationship Management Part 1 Screening

Before you get into a relationship with a woman its important to get an idea of what her background looks like. Their are 3 main types of relationships, casual sex, non-monogamous relationships and monogamous relationships and all of them come with different criteria. Screening a women will save you a lot of pain and money. This article outlines the relationship screening criteria and how to apply it  for the 3 types of sexual relationship.

Criteria

Self Esteem

  • Low self esteem women don’t think highly of themselves and don’t take compliments well
  • High self esteem women take compliments well and think highly of themselves

Dependence

  • Dependent women in relationships value closeness, multiple daily contacts and attending social events together
  • Independent women in relationships strongly value freedom and prefer to live two separate lives

Gender Identification

  • Masculine women tend to have male characteristics like roughness, sense of humor, career driven, aggressiveness  and sometimes dress, although some masculine women dress in the traditional feminine sense, also masculine acting women are not necessarily dominant in relationships
  • Feminine  women tend to dress femininely and are more likely to be sweet, gentle and strongly value interpersonal relationships, however feminine women can still be dominant in relationships

Leadership Expectations

  • Dominant women are confident  commanding and authoritative and expect to be the leader in a relationship, like all women they are still attracted to confident, commanding men but tend to favor more submissive men for longer term relationships
  • Submissive women want a confident dominant man to take charge and lead inside and outside the bedroom, this leading her emotions, offering guidance on her life and setting up activities for the two of you

Primary Motivation

  • Love based women are motivated by having meaningful loving relationships, they tend to have close friends and family and a history of long-term relationships
  • Pleasure based women are thrill seekers, they will tend to like drugs, sex, partying and having fun,
  • Status based women are very concerned about their rank in society, they strongly value money, power, looks and connections

Dramatic Temperament

  • Dramatic women will react badly to negative situations including crying, screaming,damaging property, threats
  • Non-dramatic women will handle negative situations with appropriate emotions

Testing

  • A woman who uses hard test will constantly be testing your frame with teases, insults, questions to see what your made of
  • A soft testing woman will be gentle, easy-going and rarely test you unless it’s an important issue

Sexual Compatibility

  • Women who like rough sex need a man who likes the same and will be unsatisfied with a submissive man in bed
  • Women who like gentle sex prefer a more sensitive touch and prefer making love to rough sex
  • Many women will like both depending on their moods
  • Sexual compatibility also refers to sex drive, meaning how often she would like to have sex

Relationship With Her Father

  • A woman’s relationship with her father is the primary factor in determining how she will interact with the men in her life
  • A good relationship with her father means she will most likely treat you well
  • A bad relationship with her father means that she will eventually project her issues with him on to you

Relationship With Her Girlfriends

  • A good relationship with her girlfriends means she is loyal, caring and likable
  • A bad relationship or a lack of female friends is a major red flag, it means she’s probably untrustworthy around other women’s men

Relationship History

  • Her relationship history should be a good indication of her relationship future
  • A monogamous history is a history of long-term relationships
  • A non-monogamous history is a history of short-term relationships, casual dating and infidelity

Compatibility

  • Strong commonality means you like the same movies, music, humor, type of people and have the same motivations in life
  • Weak commonality means you tend to like different movies, music, humor, types of people and have different motivations in life

Feminist Identification

  • A woman who identifies feminist will always resent being told what to do by a man
  • A woman who does not identify won’t resent a male led relationship on this principle, although she might on others

Parents’ Relationship

  • In general, the relationship of a women’s parents will define her relationships as she will internalize a lot of her mothers behavior towards her father
  • If a woman comes from a patriarchy chances are she will establish expect that kind of relationship for herself
  • If a woman comes from a matriarchy chances are she will establish expect that kind of relationship for herself

Mental Health

  • A mentally healthy woman will have strong coping mechanisms and a lack of self-destructive behaviors
  • A mentally unhealthy woman will have weak coping mechanisms and a history of some or all of the following; eating disorders, abuse, depression, self-injury

Possessiveness

  • A possessive women will be jealous, insecure and constantly needing reassurances of fidelity
  • A non-possessive woman, will be trusting and secure in the relationship

Casual Sex

  • Self Esteem: Irrelevant
  • Dependence: Irrelevant
  • Gender Identification: Irrelevant
  • Leadership Expectations: Irrelevant
  • Primary Motivation: Irrelevant
  • Dramatic Temperament: Non-Dramatic
  • Testing: Soft-Testing
  • Sexual Compatibility: Compatible
  • Relationship With Her Father: Irrelevant
  • Relationship With Her Girlfriends: Irrelevant
  • Relationship History: Irrelevant
  • General Compatibility: Irrelevant
  • Feminist Identification: Irrelevant
  • Parents’ Relationship: Irrelevant
  • Mental Health: Irrelevant
  • Possessiveness: Non-Possessive

Non-Monogamous Relationship

  • Self Esteem: Irrelevant
  • Dependence: Independent
  • Gender Identification: Submissive
  • Leadership Expectations: Irrelevant
  • Primary Motivation: Irrelevant
  • Dramatic Temperament: Non-Dramatic
  • Testing: Soft-Testing
  • Sexual Compatibility: Compatible
  • Relationship With Her Father: Irrelevant
  • Relationship With Her Girlfriends: Irrelevant
  • Relationship History: Irrelevant
  • General Compatibility: Compatible
  • Feminist Identification: Irrelevant
  • Parents’ Relationship: Irrelevant
  • Mental Health: Irrelevant
  • Possessiveness: Non- Possessive

Monogamous Relationship

  • Self Esteem: High
  • Dependence: Your Preference
  • Gender Identification: Feminine
  • Leadership Expectations: Submissive
  • Primary Motivation: Love
  • Dramatic Temperament: Non-Dramatic
  • Testing: Soft-Testing
  • Sexual Compatibility: Compatible
  • Relationship With Her Father: Good
  • Relationship With Her Girlfriends: Good
  • Relationship History: Monogamous
  • General Compatibility: Compatible
  • Feminist Identification: Non-Feminist
  • Parents’ Relationship: Patriarchy
  • Mental Health: Healthy
  • Possessiveness: Non-Possessive

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