How To Have Sex

How To Have Sex


There are a lot of bullshit guides on the internet or in mens magazines on how to have sex. Most of them are either too technical or too tame. I’m good in bed and I’ve had a lot of women, so I put this no bullshit guide together to show you guys whats worked for me, enjoy.

Ideal Conditions

  • No food 3 hours before, this will drastically increase your stamina and performance
  • Lube/condom/toys/baby wipes within close reach, ideally nightstand
  • Showered
  • Bodily functions taken care of
  • Generic Cialis/Viagra if necessary
  • Day Time/Early Evening sex as in general you’ll have more energy
  • Avoid caffeine, it’s a vasoconstrictor and a stimulant, you want your nervous system to be relaxed for good sex


  • At least 10 minutes of foreplay is ideal
  • Kissing, stroking, rubbing her through her clothes
  • Tune in to the subtle ways she kisses/touches you and mimic her movements back at her to create a seemless rhythm and put yourself and her into a trance


  • Lots of intense kissing, eye contact, opposite of porn star sex
  • Bedroom eyes while kissing and fucking her, make her look you in the eyes in missionary, it puts her in a trance
  • You want to ravish her


  • Start slow to pace yourself, tease her, allow her to get really wet, allow both of you to develop a rhythm
  • Try and maintain a steady rhythm at all times, this is very important
  • Adjust your speed based on how she responds and what feels good for you, but try to stay at each rhythm change, either slow/medium/fast for at least a few minutes before you change-up the speed
  • You can increase or decrease the speed but save the ultra fast pace for  when she or you are nearing orgasm

Standing Doggy Style

  • Keeping her legs together works better for standing doggy style
  • Make sure she keeps her back arched so you can get in at a good angle
  • Additional options: pulling her hair, spanking her ass, getting her to rub her clit
  • Standing doggy can be up against a wall or with her kneeling on the bed

Kneeling Doggy Style

  • For small girls you can keep their legs together but for average sized to taller girls its better to be between their legs as her pussy will be too high otherwise
  • An exception to this is, keeping her legs together and getting her to rest her thighs on her calves so her pussy is at a good height
  • Additional options: pulling her hair, spanking her ass, getting her to rub her clit


  • Missionary is good because you can kiss and look into her eyes which will keep both of you in a trance
  • You can prop yourself up on your elbows and cup her face/head
  • You can wrap your arms around her tight, bring her in close and put your weight on her
  • You can grab her ass and push it against your cock so you get deeper inside, with the option of rubbing/fingering her asshole

Medium Missionary

  • In medium missionary you have her legs lifted at a medium level, between high and flat on the bed
  • You should prop yourself up on your elbows
  • You can go deep and  aim your cock up to hit her A spot just above her cervix, you will need your whole cock for this, the A spot is also known as the anterior fornix
  • You can have her rub her clit in this position

High Missionary

  • In high missionary you will have her legs lifted high and will be propped up on your hands/fists
  • You can aim your cock up to hit the g spot, you will only need about half your cock inside her to do this, the lower half of your cock will be rubbing against the lower lip of her pussy
  • You can also lift your self onto the balls of your feet so you can add some extra force to your strokes, use sparingly and don’t go faster than a medium pace or you will wear yourself out quickly

Girl On Top On Couch

  • You will want to be sitting straight up with your legs together while she straddles you
  • Control the tempo by moving her ass up and down or back and forth
  • Make sure to keep your dick angled towards her g spot, this position is very good for making girls orgasm

Girl Lying On Her Stomach

  • Keep her legs together with you straddling her either propped up on your hands, your elbows or arms wrapped around her
  • This is another position girls really seem to love because it combines the angle of doggy style with the closeness of missionary
  • Additional option: rub her clit yourself, this is very powerful in this position


  • Hot yoga for hips and arm/leg strength
  • Use the stationary Bike for high intensity training


  • If you feel like you’re getting close to cumming, slow down, focus on a point on the wall, take deep breaths in and out of the mouth
  • If that technique isn’t working you can go down and eat her pussy for a few minutes


  • Debrief her on how she orgasms
  • You can make her squirt with your fingers
  • If you don’t make her cum with your cock aim to make her cum with your mouth or fingers

Sex With A New Girl

  • Avoid couch sex for the first time, bed will be your best performance
  • First time sex is always exciting so aim to last 10 minutes or more
  • Don’t get too fancy the first time, the key is good foreplay, passion and adjusting to each other’s style
  • Debrief her after first time sex about what makes her cum and use that on her in the future, ideally you were able to get the information from her on the date before that
  • Debrief on what she likes in sex and use it on her in the future
  • Debrief on what she fantasizes about but hasn’t done and use it on her in the future

Dirty Talk

  • All girls like dirty talk, the only question is the amount and the extent
  • Baby step with dirty talk, don’t expect much back from them except ya, low self-esteem girls will like being called a slut and a whore and so will some high self-esteem girls, it’s all play and fantasy and not how you think of her

Rough Sex

  • Initiate rough sex in baby steps, hair pulling, ass spanking, biting, if she enjoys it you can increase the aggressiveness


  • Sex with a condom will never be your best performance as you can’t use sensitivity
  • Girls will bleed/spot about 1/10 times you have sex
  • The more girls you have the more sexual confidence you get and the more relaxed you are
  • 1/3 of girls can’t cum without clitoral stimulation
  • Some girls can’t cum with a guy at all
  • Some girls cum/multiple orgasm very easily


  1. says

    I’m skeptical about a lot of the tips given here. Not that they aren’t real and applicable but some might be overstated.

    The notes however (at end of article) were spot on and accurate.

  2. RLD says

    Hey Kenny, ya its definitely healthy to be skeptical, I think with anything on this site its about testing it out and seeing what works for you and discarding anything that isn’t useful.

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