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How To Get Laid On OK Cupid: How I Banged 9 New Girls In A Month

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Every aspiring player wants to know how to get laid online. I’ve been using Ok Cupid off and on for 8 years and I think it’s the best dating site for getting laid with the exception of Tinder (to find out how to get how to dominate Tinder you can check out my book How To Get Laid On Tinder here). Unlike Plenty Of Fish, Ok Cupid won’t punish you for looking for casual sex and has the best matching system available, based primarily around self reported questions.

Ok Cupid also doesn’t use automatic age limit filters or scan heavily for copy and paste messages. When searching for girls Ok Cupid has great criteria for sorting, the only downside being to search by body type you need to be a paid member. I’ve used several different styles of profiles, from suited up and looking for a girlfriend, to the purely sexual one outlined in this article.

My primary goal with this profile was to find DTF girls who were ready to fuck on the first date as opposed to girls who have to be “converted”, similar to the Tinder strategy I ran. If you’re serious about learning how to get laid consistently, that should be your goal too, as opposed to getting a bunch of dates that go nowhere. The experiment was extremely successful to the point of exhaustion.

With that said, I just want to make sure you know that I don’t advocate having a ton of casual sex all the time is the best way to spend your life. Banging lots of random girls is fun for a while but the novelty and lack of emotional connection quickly wears off. If you’re new to the game or just out of a relationship you can go hard, just don’t get stuck in the trap of devoting your life to running through girls you don’t care about, moderation is key.

How To Get Laid On Ok Cupid

Who This Is Designed For
  • Guys living In a major city, I live in Toronto which has approximately 5 million people
  • Guys with decent to better looks and style who are in good physical shape, you should be a 7 or up
  • With that said even if you’re not facially the most attractive guy, being fit goes a long way and there is no reason you shouldn’t be in shape
  • Girls online who are dtf online have their pick of guys, unfortunately 95% of your success is going to be based on your pictures, girls are extremely superficial online
What You Need
  • An Ok Cupid Account, it’s a quick registration, the most time consuming part is answering the questions, all in you’re looking about an hour
  • The best possible pictures you can have, my lead picture is a “douchey” shirtless pictures showing off my physique, my second picture is a “douchey” amateur modeling picture taken with a $1500 camera in natural lighting by an amateur photographer friend
  • Only show off your body if you have visible abs and muscular arms, if not just stick to high res pics you look good in
  • Normal social skills, meaning the ability to vibe with a girl, make small talk, make her comfortable
 What  Your Profile Should Look Like
  • It should be clear that you’re looking for sex (I mostly use answering match questions and pics to show this) with just enough information to show you’re a normal guy
  • Your profile should have 2 to 3 of the best possible photos of yourself with no one else in the frame, if you’re going to use a shirtless picture, lead with that
  • It also screens out girls who aren’t dtf or feminists who think shirtless pics are “douchey”
  • For non-shirtless pics, keep it casual, jeans and a band t shirt is a good way to go, show your tatts and piercings if you’ve got them
  • The text should be brief, honest, and playful, show that you’re not looking for anything serious ,a little bit about or yourself, a few witty things, and a small list of interests (helps if a couple are girl friendly, I do hot yoga and a lot of girls comment on that)
  • Grammar should be as good as possible, women screen hard for this
  • Have your profile set to looking for short term dating, new friends and casual sex, unlike pof you won’t be punished for searching for casual sex
  • Answer as many sexual questions as you can, and make pro-sexual answers either mandatory or very important, this will match you with the most sexual girls on the site
  • In major cities, at least on the east coast most hot girls on the site are indie/hipster/artistic and white, or at least culturally white so highlight your interests accordingly
  • I put up some hipster bands I like plus some girl friendly interests
  • Keep the profile short, convey you’re cool, normal, funny and looking for sex (not necessarily spelled out like that) though not a one night stand
  • Most dtf girls are looking for an ongoing fuckbuddy so I say “I’m not looking for anything serious, just someone fun to hang out with, ideally ongoing”
  • Here is the exact profile and pics I used, as you can see below if you’re in the top tier looks wise Ok Cupid will send you an email letting you know, pretty shallow I know but unfortunately that’s the world of online dating 

How To Get Laid On Ok Cupid

 

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How To Get Laid On Ok Cupid

How To Search For Women
  • You should be messaging women within ten years of your age and within two points of your rating, eg. if you’re a 28-year-old and you’re a 7, you should message girls from 18 to 28 ranging in looks from 7 to 9
  • That’s not to say you can’t message anyone you want its just to manage your expectations, the farther away from your age and rating the less probability you will have of getting a response from the woman
  • Start with the search ordered by online now and match percentage which will list in descending order any filters that are important to you (unfortunately you can’t filter by body type unless you upgrade to a paid membership which is not worth it), I wouldn’t go any lower than a 70% match
  • Its important shes online now because girls who are dtf get tons of messages and its easy for yours to get lost in the crowd
  • I give my search range 25km to include girls in the suburbs, that might seem far but plenty of girls are willing to come downtown when they’re dtf
  • For this profile I messaged about 30 girls a day, Ideally you want to use your laptop for multiple tabs but you can multitask using the Ok Cupid app at your wage slave cell to message new girls and coordinate with ones who responded
  • Your prime results will be the first two weeks as you’ll have the best matched girls and a fresh dating pool, eventually the same girls will keep showing up so you might have to dig deeper into girls who have been online in the last week or last month
How To Message Women
  • Open with “hey hows it going” using copy and paste , this is low investment and allows you to blitz quickly, the response rate will be lower on this but girls who are dtf and like your pics will respond
  • Follow up by asking her questions about her weekend, her profile, nothing fancy necessary
  • Send 3 to 5 fluff messages back and forth asking her to meet up, say “cool, I’d like to grab a coffee with you, how does your schedule look this week?”
  • If a woman stops responding (which is common) you can either delete her messages (advised), or re initiate a few days later and repeat, if she still isn’t meeting up then delete her messages, it’s not going to happen
  • If she says yes then schedule a time that works for you at a coffee shop by your place (some guys prefer drinks but I like to be dead sober when I fuck to give a top notch cardio performance, plus its cheaper), say “Great, x night works for me, why don’t you meet me at x coffee shop for 8”, once she confirms say “great, see you then”
  • Always meet at a coffee shop/bar/lounge within a few minutes of your place I never meet a woman across town because woman flake, sometimes without telling you, then you’ll have wasted your time and if she does show up you won’t be able to take her home quickly
  • If she balks at the place or tries to get you to come to her, she is going to be difficult and might very well flake, I will hold my ground and say ” I like my plan better, its right next to my place that way if we have chemistry I can take you home and have my way with you :)”, this lets her know you’re not fucking around and she can take it or leave it, if she agrees then she knows sex is happening, if she still won’t come to you then delete her
  • Once she confirms, get her number, say “perfect, here’s my number, why don’t you give me yours”, its good to have the number, not all girls use the app and you might have to call her to give her directions, most girls couldn’t find the broadside of a barn
  • Its super important to get a girl to meet up within a week of asking her, ideally within a few days, the longer you go without meeting up the less your chances are
  • The reason following these steps is crucial is 95% of girls online are timewasters, happy to message you and entertain themselves but go radio silent at the idea of meeting up or flake on a whim, for your sanity you need to be ruthless with this shit
Dealing With Flakes 
  • If a girl texts you the day of to flake with no option to reschedule, delete her info
  • If a girl flakes without texting you, she’s a terrible person and obviously delete her info
  • If a girl tries to reschedule, I usually delete info, this might be legit (usually it’s not) you can try and reschedule her once but no more than that, chances are she’ll flake on that too
  • Make sure to text her the day of the date to confirm she can still meet up, ideally if she’s going to flake she’ll tell you, that way you can schedule another girl for that night
  • If you’re serious about learning how to get laid online consistently, you have to get rid of flakes, because the vast majority of girls online are timewasters
The Date
  • The date should take between 10 minutes to 1 hour depending on how comfortable she is, that has to be a judgment call on your part, most dtf girls are good to come home within 30 minutes or less
  • Just vibe and make her feel comfortable, ask her questions about herself,  how her day was, what she did on the weekend, what she does for fun etc. sex is already on the table due to screening her so just make her feel you’re a normal guy
  • At the end of the date, ask her back to your place regardless, even if it seems she wasn’t super interested she might just be nervous, most girls who meet up from this method will be dtf on day one due to pre-screening
Escalation
  • Once you get back to your place, escalate towards sex, this means making out, grinding, rubbing her pussy
  • If she stops you or moves your hand, give it about 5 minutes and try again
  • If she doesn’t hook up on the first date, no problem, just delete her info
  • Chances are if you’ve followed this method you won’t have any resistance because she is already dtf
  • Once you know she’s DTF you can fuck her properly, eat her pussy and make her squirt
  • Its also a good idea to have some Cialis on hand to make sure you really put it down
  • Phenibut is also a great drug for easing your nerves, plus it makes sex amazing
My Stats 
  • Messages Sent: 900 (approximately)
  • Response rate from first message: 15% ( a fair bit lower than my previous profiles)
  • Quality Of Girls: 6/10 – 8/10
  • First Dates: 10
  • Lays: 9
  • Lay Rate: 1% (1 lay per 100 messages)
  • First Date Close Rate: 90% (much higher than my more traditional profiles, this is the key metric)
  • Approximately 10 quickmatches a week (quickmatch is a feature where users can rate you, you get a message when you’re rated 4 stars or more)
  • Your response rate will definitely be lower from this method primarily because it’s a sexual profile with casual openers but the speed and close rate make it very efficient
Lay Example
  • I checked out this girl, as you can see we had an 87% match range which is pretty high, meaning she is primarily looking for sex
  • Her lead picture was decent but the sheer shirt with her bra showing did it for me
  • Once I sent her my standard opening message, with some light improv on her user name I got a pretty quick response with good input, she answered my question then asked me two of her own, the second one being the one to notice with her asking me where in the city I was, this means she’s already considering meeting up with me
  • We fluff back and forth for a few messages before I ask her for coffee within the next week following my standard protocol of pitching the meet after 3-5 messages
  • I get a great response with her asking me for a drink tonight, I know now she is horny and dtf tonight, I pitch the time and place immediately, conveniently a lounge 15 seconds from my apartment
  • She gives me points for being the right amount of decisive because she’s probably used to guys who are either indecisive or too aggressive
  • In the same message she gives me a test by asking me what I look like with my clothes on, I crush it by coming back with a cocky answer saying handsome, notice how she doesn’t confirm the date until I pass the test
  • She then qualifies herself saying her hair is a bit curlier and shorter so I wouldn’t be disappointed, I could be reading into too much into it but judging by her other responses she seemed to put pretty high value on me which means I must have fit her type pretty well
  • You can see she was straight business from the get go which is typical of masculine acting women, they also generally have a higher sex drive then submissives
  • We vibed, had a few drinks, found out she had recently gotten out of a 10 year marriage and was fucking her back at my place within 45 minutes, check out the screenshots below:
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Conclusions

If you want to learn how to get laid consistently, Ok Cupid is an excellent place to hone your skills. The key takeaways are answering the questions sexually and screening for high match percentage girls. Once you have your looks and style in place it’s just a matter of getting rid of the timewasters. I suggest using the app at work, its a good feeling knowing you’re getting paid to chase pussy. Have fun and happy fucking.


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58 Comments

  1. Canis
    July 22, 2014 at 7:52 pm

    Would this work if you were a 5’7″ Sri Lankan guy?

    Now, you’re not just any 5’7″ Sri Lankan guy.
    – You have a couple years of dieting and lifting behind you and thus have decent arms, a v-taper, low bodyfat, visible abs, bicep vein, defined facial features, etc., that 99% of skinnyfat brown males don’t have.
    – You have a decent wardrobe (cool shirts, pants, shoes, tailored suit, etc.).
    – You have access to a high end camera to shoot good profile pics.
    – You have a high IQ and good social skills to converse with girls of all races.

    However, racially, facially and vertically, you are still a 5’7″ Sri Lankan. Would this work? You’re an honest blogger so I would like your honest perspective. Thanks.

  2. July 23, 2014 at 8:55 am

    Hey Canis, absolutely, so unfortunately women do sexually select pretty heavily based on race and East Indian and asian men are not well sexually stereotyped and rank lower in the sexual marketplace. Height is also a strong factor although I would say less strong than race. I’m white and 5’10 so my first guess would be that you wouldn’t have the same results, however that doesn’t mean it won’t work for you. You’ve done all the right things for maximizing your league which is awesome so the next thing to do is to test it, and here’s how I would do it. I would build a sexual shirtless profile first and see how that works, if your response and lay rates are significantly lower, try another profile suited up, in good lighting and with the high end camera, in my experience being suited up will always get the highest message response rate although It doesn’t screen as effectively for dtf girls as a shirtless profile does. I would blitz girls in the same way as the article describes but then do a seperate blitz focusing on East Indian women only, in my opinion your success rate will be higher with them so you want to maximize your advantage. Hope that helps.

  3. A.J.
    October 8, 2014 at 10:56 pm

    Hi RLD,

    I sent you an email using the contact form on your site asking for your thoughts on my OkCupid account. Just wondering, did you get it? Thanks.

  4. October 8, 2014 at 11:31 pm

    Hi A.J.

    Unfortunately I haven’t, if you send it off to info@revolutionarylifestyledesign.com I’d be happy to look at it and send you some feedback.

    Cheers

  5. FranKD
    October 23, 2014 at 8:50 pm

    I would appreciate some feedback if you will on my okcupid profile. I think I want to set up two different ones, one for finding girls I’d like to actually date for a while,or girls who are just looking for short term fun and then one like this in the article. Could I send you the link, and maybe some body pics for an honest assesment if this approach is worth it for me? I’m in ok shape, got a little chub but compared to the average American….anyway I could use some help.

  6. October 24, 2014 at 4:05 pm

    Hey Frank,

    I’d be happy to, I just sent you email.

  7. Indi
    November 12, 2014 at 3:04 am

    Hi Will, not sure how many women send you messages, but here goes. I just joined OKC – I was married for 16 years, recently widowed, and haven’t had sex in the past 4 years. I never sowed my wild oats in my 20s so I decided it was time to have some fun. I’d like to have an ongoing sexual relationship with a younger man (I’m 48, full-figured, and have great self-esteem though I’m self-conscious about the belly I still have after having 2 kids). I look like I’m in my 30s. Anyhoo, I reached out to someone I find ridiculously attractive after being on OKC for a few hours. So here’s the scenario: I contacted him and said I’d like to have a steady stream of emotionless but monogamous (is that an oxymoron?) sex with him. He then responded with “what do you have in mind” and I said “how about we meet for a drink first?” then he said “let’s meet and if we click I’m not shy about it, we just need a place to lay our heads.” I then tried to make plans – I told him I had to figure out the logistics. He then didn’t respond. I couldn’t stop thinking about him, so I asked again “Want to meet? I need to make sure you’re not a murderer ;)” and he said “Sure, where?” and I asked him where he’d like to meet in between me and him. He never responded. Then the next day I asked him for a pic of himself and his answer was “Thanks, I’m alright.” My friends say he probably thinks I’m a cocktease. I know that’s how it seems but I’m just nervous. Should I reach out again and say “meet me at x place at y time?” or should I tell him to meet at a hotel bar? If we go to a hotel, who whould pay? I’m so confused. I just want to have a steady stream of sex from a hot younger guy, is that so much to ask? Would love your thoughts and adivce to a MILF ;)

  8. November 12, 2014 at 7:36 pm

    Hi Indi,

    So thats good you were able to get a conversation with someone you’re that into, but you want to be careful about coming across as needy. In your situation, that might be a bit difficult at first so what I would do is start messaging multiple guys with the same proposition, so you don’t get hung up on one guy. The good thing is, as a women all you have to do is sit back and wait, the guy will arrange things if he’s interested. The guy you’re talking about here does not sound super interested, he might have hooked up with you on a whim, but with the extra pressure you added by asking for an extra picture he figured it wasn’t worth the time. My advice would be to reach out to 20 guys you like with the same offer and sit back and wait. If a guy goes silent then re initiate a few days later but let him handle the logistics, if he’s into it, he will.

    I should also warn you that not having sex for that long as well as dealing with the grief of losing a spouse could make it pretty difficult for you to have a no strings attached relationship, you might find you start developing feelings for these guys so just keep that in mind.

  9. Indi
    November 25, 2014 at 7:19 am

    Thanks Will, it’s only been a few weeks and I’m realizing I’m not the NSA type. My husband kissed the ground I walked on despite any problems we had. I like myself way too much to not have someone be respectful to me- even if we are just dating. And having sex for me will lead me to like someone – a vicious cycle ;) one other question – are men really able to have such emotionless sex? I was heartened to read in your piece that you got tired of the emotionless sex- but is that the norm? – Indi (who may be investing in a vibrator soon instead of okc dates)

  10. November 25, 2014 at 2:59 pm

    I think for most women this is true with a few exceptions, the whole idea of women being able to date like men is a product of feminism. Women have the same instincts for random sex but their emotional desires are too strong. Most women can only have meaningless sex when they have a partner who fulfills their emotional needs, otherwise they become emotionally dependent on their sex partners. Guys can absolutely have emotionless sex, you need to remember, men are programmed by biology to spread their seed far and wide. Men also have 12 times the amount of Testosterone than women do. Most guys don’t have the experience to get bored of emotionless sex, they’re constantly restrained by either their relationships or their sexual market value. It took me the better part of 20 years to get over it, a large part coming from not ejaculating. By not ejaculating you increase the bonding during sex and there is no comedown for men, I like this type of sex a lot more than fucking random girls.

  11. Indi
    November 25, 2014 at 3:26 pm

    Wow I’m really learning a lot from you. I’m passing on all your advice to my fellow Milfs who are recently single. A young guy -28- came after me pretty aggressively. we ended up working pretty close to each other. but he would keep cancelling and want to text. he definitely got off on my (nonsexual) pictures. finally i asked if was nervous and he said no. he saud he wanted to fuck. i made it clear i did too. heres my theory, young guys watch so much porn, they have a hard time sustaining an erection with a real live woman. what do you think? did you ever think you’d be giving advice to women? :)
    Thanks,
    Indi

  12. November 25, 2014 at 7:05 pm

    Thanks, glad to hear it, and no, I didn’t think I would be :) Porn induced Ed is definitely a real thing, also a lot of guys have performance anxiety because they haven’t had much experience with women. Its harder for me to give advice to women because I haven’t lived a day in a woman’s body and the whole basis of this site is personal experience, with that said you might want to check out this forum as a good place to start http://www.reddit.com/r/RedPillWomen/.

  13. Indi
    November 25, 2014 at 7:17 pm

    Thanks Will, I will :) one impt question – I have a sort of urgent need for a response – I decided to reach out to a guy after I changed my profile to say new friends/long-term dating bc I didn’t want simply the f-buddy. In his profile, a guy I liked said to msg him if interested in starting with a coffee or a drink. He is 10 years younger than me. I msgd him and he asked for more pics bc i only had one close up of my face. I sent him 3 pics – 1 full length, two face to waist shots. He wrote back and said ‘nice! You’re quite lovely’ and I said ‘that makes two of us’ then he responded with ‘what should we do about it?” – I have no idea what to say. I don’t want to go right to the sexual route as I’ve explained. I’d just like to date and see how it goes.

  14. November 25, 2014 at 8:44 pm

    I would respond with exactly that, “lets go on a date and see how we get along”.

  15. Indi
    November 25, 2014 at 9:32 pm

    thanks babe – I’m going to do that now – and how can i get him to read your posts on how to have sex? I definitely want him to put me in a trance ;)

  16. November 25, 2014 at 9:47 pm

    :)

  17. ALC
    December 5, 2014 at 7:13 pm

    Hey Will,

    I met a girl online who from her profile I wasn’t sure if I was attracted to, but what can you tell from a profile right?

    So I met her, we had a laugh but I still didn’t feel any instant chemistry & was unsure if I liked her. Anyway she straight up invited me back to hers which I wasn’t expecting as it was the first date. I was treating it solely as a meet & greet leading onto maybe a few more dates maybe sex whatever.

    Anyway we had sex off & on for maybe 4 hours 6-10 times or something & I managed to cum once (also I couldn’t get rid of my hard on for like 4 hours either to the point that I got paranoid she had put something in my drink)!
    I haven’t had this problem in years since I was 18 years old. Question 1 do you ever get this?

    Second question, I am terrible at reading people whether guys or woman. She certainly seemed to enjoy herself & I assumed that as she slept with me straight away she was just up for casual sex.

    However she texts me with stuff saying “She really enjoyed herself :) xxx” “Deffo up for meeting again :) hope the night shift is going ok xxx. Did you watch the game? xxx”

    My instincts says she doesn’t know what she wants, the texts kinda seem more of a relationship vibe to me but the date screams casual sex.

    What do you think?

    Thanks

  18. December 5, 2014 at 8:36 pm

    Hey ALC,

    Welcome to the world of casual sex, to answer your first question no I haven’t had that problem before, its called priapism and I’ve only heard reports of it with healthy guys who take full dose viagra/cialis. I think its pretty doubtful she put something in your drink though, girls don’t have to drug guys to get laid.

    For your second question, it sounds like she definitely enjoyed herself and she definitely just wanted casual sex. Her messaging you like that just shows that she had a great time and wants to see you again.

    Girls that are serious about a relationship will usually try and make you wait for sex, and will definitely not invite you back to their place on a first date.

    You’ve got a fuckbuddy if you want it, the ball is in your court at this point.

  19. ALC
    December 5, 2014 at 10:59 pm

    Thanks for the reply.

    Not really looking for casual sex TBH, didn’t even realise I had ticked it in my profile until afterwards & I reread it, have taken it out now.
    Anyway I am not one to look a gifthorse in the mouth so will probably see where it goes, treat it as a bit of extra exercise & practice. Thanks for the heads up about priapism will get that looked at if it happens again.

    Keep up the good work mate!

  20. December 5, 2014 at 11:06 pm

    Thanks buddy, all the best.

  21. BG
    December 18, 2014 at 6:54 pm

    Whats up will

    I’m on okcupid myself, and I’ve been on for at least 8 months

    and Ive gotten a couple numbers but nothing seriously

    could you look at my profile and tell me what you think, since you are the pro at this

    appreciate it

  22. December 18, 2014 at 9:50 pm

    Hey BG,

    I’d be happy to look at it, I sent you an email.

  23. Nick OC
    January 3, 2015 at 10:43 pm

    Will,

    I’ve been on for a week or so now and haven’t gotten much either–do you mind checking mine out?

    Thanks much.

  24. January 4, 2015 at 1:28 pm

    Hey Nick,

    I’d be happy to, just fill out the contact page with your best email and ill get back to you.

  25. Aron
    January 4, 2015 at 4:02 pm

    Stumbled across this site yesterday when trying to figure out how to improve my tinder game and have now read almost every article. Definitely a wealth of useful experience I am going to start trying to use.
    Thanks for the knowledge

  26. January 5, 2015 at 2:45 pm

    Thanks a lot Aron, I really appreciate it. Keep me posted on how things go for you. Also I should have a full tinder ebook out by the end of this month with a hyper detailed method for all scenarios and a breakdown of 7 or 8 lay reports with screencaps.

  27. peter_m87
    April 19, 2015 at 11:49 am

    my problem is I live in a relatively small (100 thousand people) university town in Europe, and within a range of 25 kms there are only around 10-20 girls on okcupid who are good-looking. I’m not sure the whole thing is worth trying, i mean if you got 10 lays out of contacting 900 girls, that’d be zero for 20 girls…
    plus in this town practically everyone is a student or works at the university, so you might run into her very easily, or some of your colleagues might know the girl etc.

  28. April 19, 2015 at 12:11 pm

    I would agree, university town is all about social circle game, you can’t risk your rep. Might be worth a shot checking 100km out, there might be other small town girls in the same situation as you who would be willing to meet up for a weekend. Especially if you have access to a train.

  29. peter_m87
    April 19, 2015 at 12:33 pm

    yeah, there’s actually a large city 70 km from here (and another uni-town in between), and there are plenty of users there. but then one would have to travel there (60 min by train and costs money) and plus after the date i cannot bring the girl to my place, we’d have to go to hers and probably that hurts your success rate (your experience?), you cannot tell her after the date ‘we’re going to my place’, and that’s what i always did.
    thanks for the article anyway, very useful.

  30. April 19, 2015 at 8:42 pm

    Ya, I would get her to come to you, going to her is too much of a time/expense investment when there is flake potential. You’ll have to build more of an emotional connection to get her to invest though, like 1 to 1.5 weeks probably with a few calls on the phone. Now this isn’t the most time efficient way but you have limited options. With that said, you live in a university town and you’re in university, this is as prime a time as you’ll get for picking up women through your social circle. I would definitely work that channel the hardest, even if you’re a shy guy, now is the time to start building that confidence. Even if you’re scared, just feel the fear and do it anyway, hit up the university bars and make friends first, don’t worry about gaming girls. Build up a social circle and let the interested girls come to you. Glad you liked it.

  31. peter_m87
    April 24, 2015 at 5:53 pm

    i’m at the university, but not a student, just work there in a lab…so by default you have only connections to colleagues (and you don’t want trouble there), not w the students. this is compounded if you’re a foreigner. but sure, the uni-bars etc. are an option.

  32. April 24, 2015 at 11:06 pm

    I see, ya might as well give the bars a shot too, you’ll be mostly anonymous. The more options you have the better.

  33. demian17
    May 13, 2015 at 1:06 pm

    Have sex is very nice. I love it. But I will never send my life to send thousands of messages to have obsessive sex with multiple girls. I stay on my low rate of 1 girl / month met in real life. Said this ….I admire really the pro approach

  34. May 13, 2015 at 4:31 pm

    Thank you, and absolutely, do what makes you happy. Outside of my experiments I usually operate the same.

  35. Q_C
    June 20, 2015 at 8:56 pm

    Jesus, I just joined OKC and it really is an uphill battle. Its hard to be charismatic over a damn txt message.No control just numbers.

  36. June 21, 2015 at 3:47 am

    Ya online dating is a brutal numbers game based almost solely on your pictures.

  37. July 9, 2015 at 2:17 am

    Honestly, craigslist is your best bet.

    A.) It’s free.
    B.) It’s popular
    C.) If you know how to use it and avoid the spam/flakes/bots it legitimately can work.

    I will be honest though: you do have to put in some work. Learning how to write an ad, how to reply, how to be safe, etc. It’s definitely no cake walk but when compared to the money you’d spend on drinks at a club to go home empty handed, it’s a ton smarter to just use something online.

    For the spam part, I made something to help you spot the spam. All you need is the URL of the ad and paste it at http://casualcraigslist.com

    (Shameless plug, I also wrote a book about this.)

    Let me know what you think, like it or hate it.

  38. July 10, 2015 at 3:37 pm

    Hey Jake, Craigslist is great, I’ve got laid a bunch of times on there. I also found some couples to swing with, got threesomes and actually ended up with a foursome when two girls showed up. Will only work if you’re a good looking dude IMO, especially if you’re fit. I wrote a guide here a few years ago on how to get threesomes. I wrote a guide on PUA-Zone a few years ago on getting threesomes off Craigslist which a mod deleted thinking it was bullshit. Wasn’t surprised as most guys who post online aren’t getting laid very often. I’ll have to write up an article again for this site. Sounds like a cool program you have if you can rid of the bots and the gays as they will be about 95% of your responses, at least for picking up girls as a single guy. Aiming for threesomes tends to have less bots and more real responders, I would get about six or seven girls respond to every offer for a threesome.

  39. July 14, 2015 at 3:12 am

    Hey Will!

    Thanks for the reply!

    I’m glad to hear that you’ve had great success (I totally need to find that Borat meme) on craigslist. Never really had luck with the whole threesomes thing, it mostly turned out to be flakes or one half of the couple really looking. (Surprise lady, your husband has some explaining to do and knows where your missing panties are.)

    Any chance you have a copy of the article you wrote on PUA-Zone? I’d love to read it, and am working on a blog for the site. (http://casualcraigslist.org)

    As for the program, I’m working on making it better. I’d genuinely like to do something about the spammers, gays, and bots replying to legitimate ads. But so far I’ve been able to at-least warn people not to reply to spam ads, and wrote a book on how to use craigslist to get laid.

  40. July 15, 2015 at 12:13 pm

    Thanks Jake, I think the article was deleted and I don’t have a copy but the gist was this: live in a large city, be in shape, have a hot bi girlfriend/fb, post faceless/shirtless pics of both of you on craigslist, emphasize in your text that you’re normal, easygoing young professionals, filter out the fakes/gays and you’ll get about 6 or 7 women that respond to you. Of those 6/7 women, 1 will usually come through. I’ll have to do a full write up at some point but have a lot on my plate right now. Good luck with your site.

  41. Q_C
    August 19, 2015 at 12:08 pm

    Does the response “probably”= “maybe” =”no”. She said “yes” 2 days ago , now its “probably”.

  42. August 19, 2015 at 9:58 pm

    You are correct sir

  43. Anonymous
    September 6, 2015 at 1:44 am

    Any advice for someone that has some acne and acne scars.

  44. September 6, 2015 at 10:50 pm

    Yep, I would make it a major goal to get rid of it as best you can, retin a is a good place to start. Secondly take good pics and use a softening filter (can find on instagram/pixlr/photoshop) to blur the acne.

  45. Shelby
    October 9, 2015 at 11:46 am

    I just wanted to say that feminists also like to fuck. There are a ton of sex positive feminists out there!

  46. October 9, 2015 at 1:40 pm

    I would agree, feminists always fuck on the first night in my experience

  47. Anonymous
    December 4, 2015 at 5:04 pm

    I don’t have an apartment or place, is a car good?

  48. December 4, 2015 at 10:11 pm

    No, your first priority in life should be getting your own place, then you can worry about getting girls off tinder.

  49. James
    January 7, 2016 at 7:24 pm

    Hey Will!
    Love the post, super helpful how you broke down every step of the process. Do you think you could take a look at my profile and give me some tips?

  50. January 7, 2016 at 10:57 pm

    Thanks James, shoot me a quick email with your profile details and I’ll have a look

  51. Curt
    October 7, 2016 at 6:44 pm

    Hey Will,

    Love the site and the post. I am not sure what I’m doing wrong on my profile but I am get girls to visit/view my profile but they never seem to response to my message. Would you mind taking a look at my profile and giving me some tips and suggestion?

  52. October 8, 2016 at 1:12 pm

    Thanks Curt, Getting views is good but you gotta put in the numbers, I’m talking about at least 100 to get laid, the more the better, online dating is a numbers game in a big way and you have to put in the work.

  53. Curt
    October 9, 2016 at 8:09 pm

    Thank Will for the response, but I don’t follow, can you elaborate? How do I put in the numbers? I am messaging at five to sixteen girls every time I’m on the site but as stated all they seem to do is visit my page but not response.

  54. October 10, 2016 at 1:28 pm

    Ok, how often are you on the site? try sending out 200 to 300 messages a week. If that’s not getting results, then take high quality pics with a hq smartphone in natural light and see if that works for you.

  55. November 22, 2016 at 1:11 am

    What’s up, yeah this paragraph is actually nice and I have learned lot of things from it concerning
    blogging. thanks.

  56. November 23, 2016 at 2:28 pm

    Thank you

  57. nicholas
    March 16, 2017 at 7:35 am

    Hey will does your guide give examples of thw follow up question…like after u made the ice breaker comment….email me P.I.C. ?

  58. March 22, 2017 at 10:27 pm

    Yep, it has everything.

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